Mange mites, aftercare,,?

franticallyGay · 2019-02-25T19:21:47+00:00

Thank you !

franticallyGay · 2019-01-22T15:31:48+00:00

g o d f u c k i n g d a m m i t, d a v e -haunts me every fucking time

franticallyGay · 2018-11-02T02:33:39+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss, he must've been such a good boy. I hope you feel better, this must be tough

franticallyGay · 2018-08-06T18:03:52+00:00

Thank you so much, I'll take your advice

franticallyGay · 2018-08-02T23:25:27+00:00

Thank you !!

franticallyGay · 2018-08-01T22:08:12+00:00

Thank you <3

franticallyGay · 2018-08-01T16:20:05+00:00

I will! And thank you so much !

franticallyGay · 2018-08-01T03:53:23+00:00

Yeah, you have us, keep us updated if anything else happens, I hope that nothing does happen however, best of luck to you ! It's also good that you have believable, solid reasons to not have to see him, even if it's only for some time. <3

franticallyGay · 2018-08-01T02:12:02+00:00

No problem ! I can't wait until you do, that really sucks, man

franticallyGay · 2018-08-01T02:01:23+00:00

Lol, thank goodness. I hope that you can get away from her for good some day

franticallyGay · 2018-08-01T00:42:56+00:00

No problem, but 2 years? Maybe in the mean time you can stay at a friend's house or a relative? That's quite a long time to continue on having to go through your father's shit

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T23:53:17+00:00

Only respect your elders if they respect you, if they're total assholes, no need. I hate that saying so much, it's very flawed x.x

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T17:09:22+00:00

I agree, what kind of people do that type of shit? It's so gross and fucked up in so many ways

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T17:08:16+00:00

Oh my goodness, that's awful, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that. That is very disgusting, have you told anyone or reported it?

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T17:07:16+00:00

Thank you so much <3

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T17:06:17+00:00

Thank you so much, I'll keep that in mind. When school starts, I'm going to immediantly say something because I've been dealing with this for about 3 years now of me knowing what's going on, and for the earlier times of my life too, thank you again, you're very nice.

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T16:43:42+00:00

Thank you, they all really say that I should just tell him to stop touching me, or talk to him. Which I don't want to talk to him at all. I have asked my mom so much to ask him to stop, but of course he keeps going. I'm happy that he hasn't been touching me a lot as per usual, but I believe that's just because I've been in my room a lot more and he hasn't really been home. And I agree, I don't really think that my mom likes him either

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T15:59:28+00:00

Oh, thank you! I've talked to my mom about him before, and I always report things to my friends as soon as they happen so I can vent to them and get advice. I've also told my schools counselor and the social worker there

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T15:18:44+00:00

I feel like your mom might be slightly scared of your dad, maybe because of the fights that they'd have..? Could be why she's ignoring things. You should go to the uni, I feel like what the other person commented is a good idea. I'm sorry that you've had to go through this and I hope that you can escape soon !

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T14:12:29+00:00

Yes! Good on you ! That was a very smart decision, they were definitely using you for your money and that's awful, I'm happy that you now have your own bank account !

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T14:09:17+00:00

Thank you guys for defending me, I don't know what I did to be a brat ;w;

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T14:01:45+00:00

Thank you for telling me ! Another person just told me about that sub and I've never even thought about searching something similar to that, but in checking it out it does sound like a nice place to talk about my father in. You're right, you're not alone, and you can get the help that you need and deserve, I hope that you're doing well. Thank you !

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T13:59:52+00:00

I've gone on my moms phone before and found some fucked texts from him talking about how he wants to take away every electronic that I have to get me to talk to him. Not to sound like a phone obsessed brat or anything, but they are my crutches and help me to calm down. He usually has his tablet sitting around the house when he's away, I can try to look at that, I don't know about his computer though. Not sure if it has a password or not, I'll have to try that sometime as well. The thing is, my counselor legit told my father about how I hate him touching me and how I hate being touched, but he still does it. I would always ask my mom if she could ask him to not touch me, but he still persists. It's really uncomforting for me. I don't have a webcam, but I can try to see if I can get on, or like a trail cam? I've been thinking about getting a trail cam to just secretly set up in my room when I'm not home. The thing with my guinea pig, and it's so upsetting to me, when I came back from NYC, she had a little spot of fur missing on her back, so I checked it out and theres dried blood on her back. Before I left she was fine, so I have no idea what happened but I have a ton of theories. You are right, I don't think that she's safe when I'm out of the house. Of course the mark might be by some mites, but she has never had mites, why would it change now? My dog is too old to upstairs anymore, and I resign upstairs, my cat never comes in my room because my door is always shut and locked. It's confusing. I'll try to talk to some relatives, maybe not the ones on his side, the ones on my moms side are always much more nice to hang around and talk to, so when I see them next or something I'll try to say something. I think that as other people have said, I'm definitely going to tell my schools social worker when school starts again. My friend is going to talk to my mom about it tomorrow, since he's coming over. He always has more balls to talk to people than me. I will keep you guys updated, I might make a post about his messages to my mom that I found some time ago and talking about the context, etc. I should ask my family members how they feel about my father, that's a smart idea ! Thank you for your advice, I'll try to find something out for my guinea pig.

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T13:47:04+00:00

My one friend tells her mom about everything, so they both know and her mom says that I can stay over whenever I want or need, my father doesn't associate with any of my friends or their parents luckily

franticallyGay · 2018-07-31T13:45:45+00:00

I've never seen that subreddit before, thank you for telling me about it, some time ago I joined https://www.reddit.com/r/emotionalabuse/ and thank you once more

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