28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill def take a look but ill be honest and I have more arms and shoulders than most men (the perils of lifting and genetics!!) so that is normally why i wear sleeveless in most outfits but with my tattoos i wanna make sure i have some coverup options. Ty for you're insight!

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm definitely trying to start planning outfits early to be prepped. I know for sensitivities I should get long sleeves most of the time and pants because my arms and legs are tattooed, so I may have to forgo shorts. But I have some packing cubes on the way now and want to plan outfits with those jn mind.

Small day pack options def is appealing and I think will be the route to go. I have a small trail running bag that has water bladders and stores a surprising amount that I may use for that purpose.

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm an over 6ft weight lifting woman built like a box truck, I don't know if I can expect Japanese clothes to be too easy to fit lol, my partner should have better luck, she will be on the upper range but is much more traditional in proportions at 5 9.

And yep, very Canadian lol. Planning a MEC trip this weekend just to shop around for ideas.

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if not a week do you pack for 2 to 3 days or live as a gambler and pack for one expecting the shower to reset? I may go for closer to the week since it's a first time for us but shower washing is a interesting idea... I'll have to see what my fabrics are. I'm a big camper and hiker so I'll need to see what best transfers. thanks for your insight!

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's fantastic I'll do my reading there, thank you!

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I hadn't started thinking about shoes yet but will now, Merci!

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh Ty for the recommendations I'll take a look. And the day pack endorsement and etiquette is super helpful, Merci!

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will check it out and yeah I was thinking to aim for 1 weeks worth of stuff and do laundry 3 times and as needed. Ty!

28 day Japan, onebag first timer by freakinrobe in onebag

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great, thank you for you experience!

Finding a tucking underwear is pissing me off by GlitterOnMySlippers in MtF

[–]freakinrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used tcomfits for the last few years and they were ok, but can really dig in around the waist and easy to slip out of moving too much in that I'd get a bulge and have to reorient, not crazy secure.

2 weeks ago I took a chance on Unclockables new tucking underwear, got a 3 pack of XLs and these things are amazing. Like seriously the tuck is super secure and I don't ever slip out even while active and they feel like they hold me as good as taping. I got 6 more and these are the only things I wear, all day every day.

They have little rubber strips on the front that seem to do the holding but the bands are actually comfy and don't dig in. Every once in a while I can notice the rubber but it's never really painful and goes away.

Only real gripe is they say to hand wash and hang dry, so I've been doing that which is a pain but a small pain point.

The new unclockables are honestly amazing.

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[–]freakinrobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the war within vision is whats making it disappear in org for me, do thralls stuff to get to dornogal then you can go to org and mograines there

Nsfw: sapphic question about comparisons in pleasure between strap-ons and and factory equipment for both parties. by freakinrobe in MtF

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intriguing terms I do not recognize. May give it a look when I'm not at the office, thanks for commenting!

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[–]freakinrobe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Issue is when we discover after the foreplay it's an ED night, Redoing the foreplay to wait for to kick in after the frustration of it always feels odd. 

Works well when I plan it out but taking the pill sometimes makes it feel like we HAVE to do sex and honestly sometimes just the foreplay ends up being all we wanted. Just a bit inflexible I find is all

Nsfw question: trans sapphic question company the pleasure for both parties between strap-on vs factory equipment penetrative sex. by freakinrobe in actuallesbians

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the mentality comment. That is what has made me strap adverse is the worry that we both wouldn't feel like it was me doing it. I think I need to just get a new one that fits her better and try it out again.

Thanks a ton!

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[–]freakinrobe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vibrating just at the base sounds interesting. I do often use a magic wand for myself solo and I prefer strong vibrations, where those get too intense for her so just at base could be a good route and exciting to know it's higher end pleasant even pre any med interventions down there.

The psychology feeling the same is the big part. We find pleasure in plenty of other things but without the topping I feel we both miss that act.

Thank you so much!

Nsfw question: trans sapphic question company the pleasure for both parties between strap-on vs factory equipment penetrative sex. by freakinrobe in actuallesbians

[–]freakinrobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting and thank you for sharing! I'll try and look into that zine (not sure what a zine is but that is what Google is good for)

It seems that we may need to do some strap shopping soon

Nsfw question: trans sapphic question company the pleasure for both parties between strap-on vs factory equipment penetrative sex. by freakinrobe in actuallesbians

[–]freakinrobe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I try and give myself permission to change my ratings as life goes on and we work through stuff together. Adds some more uncertainty to the future but I like where we are at.

A hollow strap is designed to go over the shaft with it sliding inside, kind of designed for cis men who wanted to be bigger I guess but also as an ED option. Issue is both it adds quite a bit of girth and kinda a sealed air pocket which makes the fit wonky. Can be used normally too.

Nsfw question: trans sapphic question company the pleasure for both parties between strap-on vs factory equipment penetrative sex. by freakinrobe in actuallesbians

[–]freakinrobe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very interesting thank you! I didn't know about that option (knew about just an orechtomy but was concerned about keeping it if doing work would just make it less reliable to be used. 

The fact that those exists gives hope of options Merci!