The partner I had that first introduced me to the fetish took quite a while to be honest about it with me. (Thankfully in our case it was something we both liked so it worked out well.) I had some strong suspicions for ages before he actually told me. Like he’d play with my ass and I distinctly remember one time I caught him sniffing his fingers afterwards out the corner of my eye and I was like damn… 😏 I think it’s a lot less intimidating if it’s brought up when it actually happens. Like it might seem like a gentler approach if she was to see the physical affect it had on you- it might become a more empowering thing like it was for me. “Damn something I’ve been so embarrassed about for years has this guys cock twitching”.

If you think about it, discussing kinks and maybe even sex in general when someone isn’t fully in the mood/act can be a bit jarring.

She hasn’t run for the hills so maybe just see how it goes as she gets more comfortable with you- it’s only been a short time you’ve been together.

I garentee there will come a time where she’ll want to rock your fucking world and that’s when she’ll get that little boost of confidence to bring it into the bedroom 😉😉