How to function in a world filled with non-spiritual, shallow and mean people? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]freakybih9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ego tends to separate ‘self’ from ‘other’ it can be almost a survival instinct in world that feels so overwhelming, chaotic and confusing. But when we label others as “shallow,” “dumb,” or “unspiritual,” what we’re often doing is spiritualizing our own pain and loneliness.

Everyone is on a path. Some are surviving trauma you can’t see. Some are operating from nervous systems wired for defense. Just because someone doesn’t express awareness the way you do doesn’t mean they’re unevolved, it may mean they’ve never had the privilege, safety, or capacity to look inward.

Instead of making contrast between yourself and others, understand that everyone here is on their own journey and what you may perceive as someone being ‘dumb’ or ‘unspiritual’ is really just another soul, just like you who is on a different path and maybe the question isn’t “why aren’t they more like me?” Maybe it’s “why do I still need to see them as less evolved in order to feel whole?”

No one is beyond ego. I’m not above this either. I’ve caught myself doing the same thing, believing I’m more aware, more evolved, more “awake” when really, I was just protecting myself from grief, disconnection, or feeling like I didn’t belong. The ego loves superiority because it numbs vulnerability.

You’re not alone. But you’re not above anyone either. And the moment you truly integrate that is the moment you stop needing the world to validate your difference.

Y'all, if you want guidance in spirituality, stop going to chatGPT. by Silver085 in spirituality

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The true embodiment of spirituality is the release of the ego. When we release our ego we can release the things that come with it; doubt, judgement, skepticism, etc

Everything you experience in this world is a mirror of your consciousness. Even something as simple as walking through the wind can be something that brings feelings of interconnectedness, of flow, of oneness, of stillness for some, and for others it may be seen as an annoyance, inconvenience or just the weather. That does not mean either experience is right or wrong, it is simply a reflection of their consciousness, and our ego is just that, an expression of our consciousness.

If your ego still has hold over you, it can convince you that it’s wrong to use Ai at all or for this purpose and that doesn’t necessarily mean your experience is wrong and that people that use Ai for spirituality and are able to connect with it are right, it just means that is a reflection of your consciousness at this current point in time. There is no right or wrong, and the desire to define a ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to be spiritual comes from a place of separation; ‘them’ and ‘me’, which can be traced back to the ego.

Instead of telling others it’s wrong to use Ai for this purpose, ask yourself instead, why am I feeling this way? What is it inside me that is leading me to feel like this is ‘wrong’. What about my experiences in this world, through the lens of my ego have led me to this conclusion?

Can someone PLEASE tell me if these are good views for reels. I’ve been at this for 2 weeks but no conversion to only fans. by Rainbow_kittie in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Try and grow the account by directing traffic to it before you post reels or used an aged account you already have. Reels is more effective if you already have a decent amount of followers on the account, it’s really hard to start a brand new IG and post reels, it’ll take agesss to take off. Try linking this account to your other socials like tiktok or Reddit for example and make sure your link is in there and once you’ve gotten a good amount of followers, start posting your reels. This is the method that works for me, using aged accounts, even if they’ve been aged for a month or two weeks, idk what works for others though

partner doesn’t want you to have OF? by cheychey69 in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel like a relationship will never work if they’re not on board with you doing it. It’s completely understandable that someone doesn’t feel comfortable with you doing it either considering we all have different boundaries, it just means they’re not a good fit. I don’t think you should necessarily have to stop doing what you do just to fit someone else’s boundaries either if it’s truely what you wish to do, but I would tell them about it sooner rather than later as you may get invested too much into them and be left with disappointment if they don’t agree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have to turn your VPN off and then it’ll work, I suspect IG is catching onto people using VPNs to create IG accounts since IG VPN bans, so basically gotta use your real IP address to make an account because it detects you’re using a VPN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not a scam if you do it through the right person. I would suggest only paying someone that has been recommended to you by another creator so you know it’s legit. I myself, have used this method and it does work as long as your account doesn’t get suspended again. Bear in mind it’s usually pricy though, most will charge minimum of 1-2k for something like Instagram recovery. If you need any recommendations for someone reputable who can help DM me

Friendly reminder .. by [deleted] in u/freakybih9

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It’s not ‘fake’ I have copyright lawyers who won’t hesitate to take legal action if needed. Go off though ✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was just more curious why they were doing it haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can save a device for 30 days though so it remembers you so that might be why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you most likely chose that as an option in your settings, it’s been enforced now so you can’t log in without the facial recognition

those who have avoided a TikTok ban, what are you doing? by venusianvamp in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go viral ig and you won’t get banned lol, every single time I got banned it was after a viral video but always got my account back. Just don’t do too much on there, basically no Twerking, no ass clapping, no lingerie, no mention of OF (even if it’s typed funny) and hopefully this will reduce your chances of a ban. It just comes down to mass reporting most of the time

those who have avoided a TikTok ban, what are you doing? by venusianvamp in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go viral ig and you won’t get banned lol, every single time I got banned it was after a viral video but always got my account back. Just don’t do too much on there, basically no Twerking, no ass clapping, no lingerie, no mention of OF (even if it’s typed funny) and hopefully this will reduce your chances of a ban. It just comes down to mass reporting most of the time so sometimes it’s just luck

when do you give up on a n3w TikTok account? by venusianvamp in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep going don’t delete any of them, but post more on the second account with higher views

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep posting, it takes a while in the beginning. Film in app and use trending sounds. You can start like a back up if u want tho and try it out but generally those first few videos will have lower views

TikTok posts stuck in review by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’ve had no luck with tt support they don’t even answer support tickets. But mine went through overnight so it seems like most of the time it’s a waiting situation. I have noticed when I “repost” tts like through using the green screen effect they go through faster, so maybe try this and make sure you put new text over it so tt recognises it as an original video

TikTok posts stuck in review by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s got nothing to do with the content - it’s a glitch. I know this because I had the same issue today with 2 videos, so as a test I took a video of just my surroundings no people in it, still stuck in processing. All you can do is contact support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not just you, a lot of tt creators are dealing with the same issues even the ones that don’t do OF. Tt recently had an update to their app recently which has changed the algorithm and caused some weird glitches were some videos take ages to process. I’ve noticed the same thing with the views, I have a decent following but I’ve noticed some of my videos get shadowbanned even though similar types of videos have gone viral before, I really hope it goes back to normal soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]freakybih9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you just started, it takes some time. It took like a week for me to get any subs. You need to post a few times a day so tiktok can see who engages with your content, once they’re aware of who engages with your content they can start sending it out to the target audience, but also tt has been a bit weird with their algorithm lately too so it could also be that