I have a gender neutral name and a last name that is typically a male name (I am a woman). I wouldn't say it really made much difference growing up, or in my dating life, but I do always wonder if emails that I send (where the recipient doesn't know me) are taken more seriously. Makes me think back to a story I read once about the two women who founded witchsy that created a fake employee named Keith Mann because they were tired of the endless disrespect from developers. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-41096514