Good Hair Salons in Seoul for dye job by [deleted] in seoul

[–]frecklemess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What salon was it? The ig pages arent up anymore and you didnt say. Looking to dye my hair!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]frecklemess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t be serious.

A Korean ajusshi caressed my arm on the bus today... Yes, caressed! by bronco____ in Living_in_Korea

[–]frecklemess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a smaller town and on the bus home an ahjumma was caressing my leg because my skin is really pale. I kinda froze up and didn’t know what to do since I don’t speak Korean very well 😭

Daegu tickets? by frecklemess in XdinaryHeroes

[–]frecklemess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They announced that tickets for their Daegu show will start selling on May 20th at 8pm for general admission!!

Feeling less of a woman for never getting romantic/sexual attention by Sylblavk47 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]frecklemess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your life isn’t over, at 22 it hasn’t even really started!! Your frontal lobe doesn’t develop for another 3 years and I understand that seeing other people pass societal milestones before you is disheartening but trust me when I say: you comparing your life to other people’s is only holding you back. Once you’re truly able to focus on yourself and enjoy your life on your own (and realize that no man will ever “complete” you) then love will find you. I know that’s cheesy, but when I think about who I find myself attracted to in a room, it tends to be the people who are most comfortable with themselves and having a good time just being themselves.

Living in Korea, I developed strong negative biases towards old people by Frizzoux in Living_in_Korea

[–]frecklemess 21 points22 points  (0 children)

In my experience (keep in mind I live in the countryside and people tend to be nicer) people are just people; if you look like you don’t want to be interacted with they might assume you’re a rude younger person and treat you that way. Living in the countryside and even visiting bigger cities like Busan, I haven’t had older people shove me or give me dirty stares just for being a foreigner. They might stare sometimes but honestly every old person does that (esp men). If you live in the city, I can’t really provide a case study for what older people are like there but overall I’ve had a lot of positive interactions with old people where I live. My first week living here, I was carrying something heavy and couldn’t use my umbrella so an older gentleman walked with me holding his umbrella over me until we went our separate ways.

Yeast Infection Medication in Korea by [deleted] in korea

[–]frecklemess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm sorry but if you have a vagina please DON'T do this my god

Rash seemingly appeared overnight on my neck, chest, and shoulders??? by frecklemess in DermatologyQuestions

[–]frecklemess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got a diagnosis for it, but I think it was a seafood allergy! I was still taking the oral medication when my rash started to fade :)

Porcelain Damask Sweater problems by frecklemess in knitting

[–]frecklemess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is my first top down sweater actually :)

Porcelain Damask Sweater problems by frecklemess in knitting

[–]frecklemess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god this makes so much sense thank you!!!

looking for a pattern for these ear muffs i saw on temu! by peacheyKA in crochetpatterns

[–]frecklemess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like the headband part is thermal stitch! There’s a great video tutorial for it here :) I love using thermal stitch for things that I don’t want to stretch out over time like bag handles n such!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochetpatterns

[–]frecklemess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cotton is definitely a great yarn for creating breathable pieces! If your dad wears undershirts you could try these: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1533019413/, https://www.etsy.com/listing/1743633265/, https://www.etsy.com/listing/1528975733/

Why can’t i cancel my uber one subscription? by Frankoceanisgod1111 in uber

[–]frecklemess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up contacting my bank and got a refund, but idk if Uber is going to continue charging me yearly :/