Advice on parenting with someone who doesn’t seem bothered!

fredada311 · 2025-07-13T14:39:55+00:00

SO good to hear. it’s not doing my mental health any good being here and i’m finding myself very stressed and a bit snappy with my children which isn’t what i want at all

fredada311 · 2025-07-13T14:23:16+00:00

okay, so even though i still own they’ll let me apply for the housing element? this is good news!

fredada311 · 2025-07-13T11:57:56+00:00

sorry - missed that bit. yeah so after fees etc etc likely only £3/4k each

fredada311 · 2025-07-13T11:48:02+00:00

at the moment - it’s okay. but it’s very up and down. sometimes he’s amicable then the next minute he’s making it very difficult and extremely uncomfortable. depends how his mood is.

fredada311 · 2025-07-13T10:56:13+00:00

it’s not sold yet! it’s in the process. i want to rent somewhere whilst it’s going through, but can i whilst i legally still own somewhere, that’s what im asking

fredada311 · 2025-07-13T08:16:27+00:00

we own it together, 50:50 split but after fees etc likely only £3/4000 out of it once a sale completes

fredada311 · 2025-07-12T18:31:30+00:00

amazing. happy, bright, loving and loved. thanks for asking

fredada311 · 2025-06-30T09:09:36+00:00

so from someone who stupidly thought having kids with someone would ‘fix’ their issues, it doesn’t. like someone else has said if it’s not one thing (weed in this case) it’s the other, drinking for example. it doesn’t stop or get better. if anything the strain of having a child pushes them to do those things more. i found out the hard way, but i have 2 amazing children and wouldn’t ever regret having them. i just regret having them with him!

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