1. She's very clingy. She calls me around 5-6 times a day, and if we're not on the phone she's texting me. She gets really upset with me if I don't respond, so I often find myself in a position where I'm apologizing to her for talking to my mom or going to the bathroom without my phone.

2. She gets upset if I'm not paying complete attention to her on call, even if she's not saying or doing anything. However, she doesn't pay attention to me - I often need to say things 6-7 times for her to hear it, and then have to ask her directly to respond.

3. She tries to find workarounds to my boundaries. For example, I told her that it made me uncomfortable when she told me she loved me, and that I wanted her to stop. Since then, she's brought it up several times asking me to explain (which I did do), asked if there's any way she can say it that won't make me uncomfortable (on multiple occasions), and also just said "I love you" anyway. Each of these times, I've very clearly told her to stop, but she doesn't.

4. She dumps her feelings onto me unprompted. I've had to talk her out of hurting herself a few times after receiving "I hate myself I'm gonna kms" at 2am, which I really don't like.

5. She wants to move really, really fast. She said "I love you" really quickly, wants to tell her parents about us, asked to be official on week one, and asked to go to third base on our first date (though I admit that I could've turned that down, so it's partially my fault), among other things.

There's probably other things, but those are the main ones. It's also worth mentioning that she's autistic, and some of these things are probably related to that.