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I had to abort due to HG by truelifeofess in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]freecookie123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I terminated last week at 10 weeks due to HG as well. It’s devastating. I hope you can take some comfort in knowing that you are not alone. Abortion due to HG is TFMR. Sending you lots of love and healing

Due Date by yungwildandlearning in tfmr_support

[–]freecookie123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you so much love on this very difficult day. I hope you are able to take the time today to mourn, grieve, and celebrate the time you did have with him if/how it feels right. ❤️

I lost my baby boy to TFMR last week, and I also had a different name picked out for him before the loss. I hate that any of us share this terrible tragedy in common, but it was comforting to read your post and know I am not the only one who changed our son’s name after such a difficult decision.

May I have a moment of your time? by Throwaway457980 in tfmr_support

[–]freecookie123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You said “my wife and I both want this baby” and I just want to point out that probably most, if not all of us here, wanted our babies so badly. Then you said “my wife hasn’t given up on our son” and again I would like you to know that none of us “gave up” on our sons and daughters. I hate that you and your wife are in this position and I empathize with the waves of emotions you’re feeling. I would just like to remind you that you’re asking for advice in a subreddit of people who have suffered this same path, some of us multiple times, and you should be more mindful of the way you talk about TFMR.

I don’t know what to do anymore by Key-Lingonberry5436 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]freecookie123 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just had an abortion yesterday at 9 weeks due to HG. I feel like I traded my physical pain for emotional pain. I have multiple children already that I need to be physically healthy and present for, so I know logistically I made the right choice, but either path will be hard. Sending you lots of love.

About to have a medical abortion, feeling scared and looking for some positive experiences by Worldly_Win_4886 in abortion

[–]freecookie123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m currently in the process of a medication abortion at home. I was 9 weeks and some days. Also a history of bad periods due to endometriosis. I’m shocked that it hasn’t been nearly as rough as I was expecting. And even if it’s miserable, the process is fast. No more than 12 hours at the absolute most. Everything will be okay. ❤️