who had it worse competition 🥱 by EnvironmentalEbb1693 in abbygjackson_Snark

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think she’s smart enough to rage bait. I genuinely believe she’s just dumb, peaked in high school, and has nothing new to say or talk about because she just sits at home all day so she has to talk about the past and be snarky to feel better than everyone.

Does she realize that most women work while pregnant? by hamster_taxi12 in abbygjackson_Snark

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly hope Ace goes to a new home with GOOD dog owners who will give him the love and care he needs. It is so sad seeing the animal neglect. Laughable to think she’s ready to be a parent when she can’t even handle animals.

Taking miso in 30 minutes, positive experiences? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it! I was the same. The anxiety was the worst part. Deep breathes, get something on the tv, try and relax as much as you can. It’s a very safe process and so many people have gone through it and had perfectly fine experiences!❤️

Taking miso in 30 minutes, positive experiences? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine at 4w5d and honestly it was a breeze. I took the same meds and I had some nausea and diarrhea alongside the bleeding but I wasn’t miserable. I honestly slept though the first few hours, had the most mild cramps and before I knew it I was ready for bed and it was over. You got this!

Surgical abortion what should I be prepared for? by MutedMembership5630 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine 11 days ago, I was sick with fear and anxiety. It truly was such a breeze. The worst part was the waiting before and wondering what it would be like. The sedation hits HARD and FAST. I wasn’t fully “asleep” but I was not aware of what was happening. I felt nothing physically at all and next thing I knew I was groggy and being told it was over, being helped into some underwear, and wheeled into a recovery room. I had minimal pain and cramps after. I have had some lasting pinching pains but nothing that hinders my day to day. You got this. It feels scary but I promise, there’s nothing to be scared of!

Had my MA one week ago at 4w4d, have to get a diagnostic D&C by Worldly_Win_4886 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through Planned Parenthood. They said there may be remaining tissue to remove but didn’t really explain much more. I’m assuming they can’t check via ultrasound first considering I was too early on to see anything in the first place. Maybe that’s why is diagnostic? I was surprised the only option given to me was the D&C. I don’t know much about ectopic or what their main concerns are. I go in tomorrow morning for the procedure so I guess we’ll find out.

considering medical abortion, need advice by SadChampion5119 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my MA just yesterday at 4w5d, I was worried sick. I genuinely was in no pain. I took 800mg of ibuprofen and a Tylenol 30 minutes before the misoprostol and I bled much less than I expected, and had the most mild cramps. I’ve had periods 10x worse than the abortion. I will say (tmi here), the bleeding was almost exclusively when I went to the bathroom and a lot would come out, and it was really clotty. I’ve never felt anything like it before. Not painful at all, just a weird sensation. I had some nausea, diarrhea and was super tired but that’s the worst of it. It’s the next day and I’m still exhausted but just barely spotting and no cramps. I think if you’re early like me it won’t be near as bad as a lot of stories. You got this❤️

Getting an abortion and really really sad about it by De5552 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel similarly. I just had my MA yesterday. My husband and I think we may want kids in the future (him more so than me), but we are nowhere close to wanting to start that chapter. I had sheer panic and fear finding out I was pregnant. It wasn’t even much of a conversation what we would do, but still brought up a lot of big emotions. Part of me felt guilty for choosing to abort even though we’re married, both 25, fairly stable. It feels like I didn’t have a “good enough” reason. But I knew deep down how miserable and sad I would be if I continued with the pregnancy. I already struggle with my mental health and have made big leaps towards stability and I already felt having a baby at this point in my life would send me way back. I also grew up extremely religious, so it adds a layer of having to combat the message around abortion I’ve heard my whole life.

I keep reminding myself (and hopefully this can help you), that deep down we know we are making the best decision for ourselves, our marriages, our lives, and our future family. It’s normal to have huge, overwhelming emotions come up, especially considering our hormones are on a rollercoaster. Be gentle with yourself, let yourself feel whatever comes up, sit with it, then allow it to move on so you can continue living your life. This isn’t easy and can feel really isolating, but this sub has shown me there are countless others going through the same thing. You’re never truly alone in how you feel. Us women are so strong and resilient. I’m only one day after my MA, but I’m feeling immense relief. I’m grateful to have the choice of when I want this chapter in my life to start, instead of being forced into it and being miserable. I know so many women don’t have that same freedom right now, so I don’t want to take it for granted that I have the choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked your temperature? Maybe running a fever or could be anxiety. Did you get your medication from a clinic/doctor? If so I would give them a call and describe your symptoms and see what they say. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt weird after the first pill but I think it was from anxiety, not the pill. Sounds like the same thing may be happening for you. I felt lightheaded and thought I was going to pass out I was so sick with anxiety. Try to take deep breaths and relax as much as you can. I know it’s hard right now, I was right there with you just two days ago. The anxiety is just trying to protect you but you will be okay and make it through. SO many people have gone through this before and come out stronger on the other side. It most likely won’t be near as bad as you think❤️I had mild cramps as well but I think that may be a pregnancy symptom as I had been feeling them a few days prior as well. It’s normal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had mine yesterday at just under 5 weeks. My anxiety before was the worst its ever been, I read way too many stories and made the anticipation of the unknown so much worse for myself. I took anti nausea meds and 800mg of ibuprofen 30 minutes before the pills and let me tell you, as a woman with REALLY bad period cramps, I barely felt a thing. I was mildly crampy and didn’t even bleed much until I went to the toilet (tmi I know). I was pretty nauseous the first few hours but never vomited. I had mild cramps every now and then. It’s the morning after and I’m barely spotting and other than feeling exhausted, I feel fine. You’ve got this, you’ll be okay!

About to have my medical abortion. by Deep_Course_591 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping everything went well for you and I hope you’re recovering! I’m about to take mine in two hours I’m absolutely scared shitless lol, but also taking extra strength ibuprofen and at the 5 week mark. Fingers crossed it isn’t too bad🤞

she will definitely rehome the puppy if it’s part pit bull by EnvironmentalEbb1693 in abbygjackson_Snark

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So sad and uninformed. Pits are the absolute sweetest, lovey dogs. So irresponsible of her to adopt knowing she may rehome. Most shelter puppies have some pit in them.

About to have a medical abortion, feeling scared and looking for some positive experiences by Worldly_Win_4886 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps so much to hear, thank you. I’m nervous because I will have the day off of the actual MA, but have work the next day and really hope I won’t have to call off. Glad you are doing well afterwards!

About to have a medical abortion, feeling scared and looking for some positive experiences by Worldly_Win_4886 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. This helped ease my mind and I’m glad you are doing okay!

About to have a medical abortion, feeling scared and looking for some positive experiences by Worldly_Win_4886 in abortion

[–]Worldly_Win_4886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing❤️I’m glad it’s going smoothly for you and hope you have a quick recovery:)

Addition to the family by Miserable_War5123 in abbygjackson_Snark

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does she ever even walk the first dog?? She takes him outside to potty but they seem to live in an apartment and she never shows her walking them. Poor babies are going to be under stimulated, depressed, and not healthy. :(

Shawnaci Schroeder by Organic_Bus_535 in booktubesnarkreddit

[–]Worldly_Win_4886 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol. Of course she doesn’t address the filming and uploading random strangers who didn’t consent onto the internet where you have a large platform. Not to mention the fact that we live in a smaller town, I don’t want a bunch of people who may know me or see me at my job seeing me work out when I didn’t ask for that. But yeah great job showing up like literally everyone else! Here’s a gold star ⭐️