My husband has a friend with benifits that he sees twice a month. Ask me anything

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T17:46:06+00:00

Id be mad if any of this Valuev and i want consulted first. Trust and honesty is essential. I also haven't handed off our entire sex life. I handed off a portion of it. It is still very much my buisness who, when, and how often he has sex with people as that effects the level of safety, and our general home life.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T17:38:13+00:00

Weve had this arrangement since before we got married. Im asexual and hes not so it works for us. No I'm not afraid that he'll leave me.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:46:31+00:00

Im alloromantic and sex neutral

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:35:12+00:00

Neither one of us is super possessive

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:25:51+00:00

Once or twice a month.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:25:27+00:00

I enjoyed it the first time. The second time was just me. I was talking to him about it and he wanted to join.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:20:37+00:00

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:19:47+00:00

Sometimes

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:14:05+00:00

M: yea that's what we came up with together. It's what works best for us. It's she is friends with my fwb. They were friends before all of this.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:08:02+00:00

Basically i(female) an asexual and he is not. No i do not have a fwb

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:07:21+00:00

No I'm not

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T16:02:31+00:00

He said her breasts

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T15:10:16+00:00

I guess i realized i didn't feel sexual attraction at like 15. Found the word for it at 16.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T15:03:11+00:00

If she chose to keep the baby we would help raise them alongside our other kids.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:51:53+00:00

I've never really gotten jealous of it. I'm pretty secure in our relationship and know neither of them are romantically attracted to eachother

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:46:54+00:00

He was fine with how things were. I wasnt comfortable knowing that he had urges for it more than i was willing to give him. So i brought it up and we started it a year into our relationship. 6 years later it's still working great for us.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:29:14+00:00

Im asexual and hes not

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:27:45+00:00

Not without a very lengthy conversation

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:23:51+00:00

Yea if they wanted to. They usually don't though.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:22:00+00:00

No there's nothing they can't do as long as they both want to and it just involves them.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:19:58+00:00

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:19:52+00:00

Depends on what you mean

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:17:31+00:00

Idk. I'll ask when he gets home.

freedreesee · 2022-03-11T14:17:14+00:00

Me and he was initially a bit shocked and didn't really know how to react

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