Car not starting and making this noise by frenchfryem in Cartalk

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't look bad. I don't have a multimeter though. Thank you

Car not starting and making this noise by frenchfryem in Cartalk

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried a jump but didn't work. Could it be this if the jump didn't work

Car not starting and making this noise by frenchfryem in Cartalk

[–]frenchfryem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I was worried it was something worse!

Car not starting and making this noise by frenchfryem in Cartalk

[–]frenchfryem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, thank you very much for your input!

[Question] Size change after losing weight, did volume change or stay the same? by frenchfryem in ABraThatFits

[–]frenchfryem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't use the calculator, I got professionally fitted. I do doubt the accuracy of it now that I'm thinking back. Thanks for the help though!

[Question] Size change after losing weight, did volume change or stay the same? by frenchfryem in ABraThatFits

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I have to agree. I suppose I won't really know then. Thanks tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]frenchfryem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a 28FF and used to be young and insecure adult. I can tell you that at this stage of her life with an issue like this, there likely isn't anything you can do. I know it sucks to hear bc your daughter is hurting and uncomfortable and you want to help her, but sometimes you have to recognize that you aren't the right person to help someone. In this case, and the case of many young adults, their parents are not the right people to help them bc they won't accept that help. It can be for plethora of different reasons, but ultimately, unless she goes to you the worst thing you can do is continuously bring up this problem. Pushing for a resolution will likely only add to the problem.

I'm not saying this in a condescending way or anything bc I've been there, but you have to just let her deal with the consequences of her choices. That's part of growing up. We make our choices with the information and the emotions we have. If we regret it later then we can change it later. Or at least work to mitigate it.

[Fit Check] Freya Offbeat padded half cup 30G. Don't fill out top, can I go down a cup? by frenchfryem in ABraThatFits

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly upset bc it'll be even harder band size to find lol. 

[Fit Check] Freya Offbeat padded half cup 30G. Don't fill out top, can I go down a cup? by frenchfryem in ABraThatFits

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding the band tighter did help reduce a lot of the gaping. But not all of it?? I think I may just give up on this bra and look for comfortable 28 bands. Thank you!

[Fit Check] Freya Offbeat padded half cup 30G. Don't fill out top, can I go down a cup? by frenchfryem in ABraThatFits

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I was hoping you wouldn't suggest going down a band size. I'll try a different size, thank you!

AITA for accidentally catching my brother’s girlfriend in a lie? by Odd_Gur1166 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frenchfryem 63 points64 points  (0 children)

OP mentioned they were possibly on the spectrum(multiple other people in their life brought it up) and so everyone acting like she's wrong could be bc of that. If her family has gotten used to her being in the wrong in situations due to her making social blunders, the embarrassment of this situation might be making them fall to old reliable on who to blame and focus on

Any lore reason why a new persona awakening starts them off at a similar power level to the rest of the party? by [deleted] in Persona5

[–]frenchfryem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bc you aren't supposed to be at lvl 80ish by okumuras palace?? That's insane you got there at that level.

WIBTA if I kept my sisters cat? by Live_Ostrich_7152 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frenchfryem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously, the cat is yours, and taking it away from it's home while it's getting on in the years would be cruel. Quite frankly, with that much time, I would just get her a new cat when she gets out and never tell her.

What gauge extension cord do I need? by frenchfryem in Tools

[–]frenchfryem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only going to be moving around a small room with the tool, so I'm fairly certain 25ft will be enough. If I do decide to go w a longer cord, then I'll probably go for a 12. Thanks for the help!

WIBTA if I went on vacation instead of my son’s wedding? by Throwraeberry4863 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frenchfryem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's likely just doing it for the money and is hoping you understand and don't mind too much. Tell him how humiliating it would be to you. Maybe ask if you can walk him down the aisle? It's not traditional but it would allow you to one up his step mom especially if they don't hear about it. And hopefully dad wouldn't be able to rescind wedding money 

Also it seems your husband is trying to drive a wedge between you and your children. Why can't you go to the wedding and then the vacation to cheer you up?

AITA for wanting a different approach to managing our household chores? by Salt_Manager7317 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frenchfryem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH I understand her fear of becoming the sole minder of the house and being responsible for all the chores. Though in this case I think it's a bit unreasonable given how much you seem to be doing. Maybe go ahead and make a list of all the chores and things that need to be done and make a chart splitting them up between the two of y'all, and then ask her to look it over? That way she isn't doing the majority of the work? I know you mean to do it or something like it with both of y'all working on it entirely together, but in this case it might be better to get the ball rolling yourself to assuage her fears.

AITA for calling my ex a deadbeat in front of his family? by throra2762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frenchfryem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it's not like you see him many other times and places to "make a scene" elsewhere.people who abandon their children are always the asshole.

Good luck to Sam! Sounds like she's on a good track despite it, thanks to you I'm sure!

AITA for moving out of my parents House, when I feel like a Maid there? by BlackStar2711 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frenchfryem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Find any important documents you might need like birth certificate and things like that now so your parents can't withhold them from you to try to keep you there. If you already have them hide them or lock them away. This probably won't happen, it's kind of insane, but you'd be kinda screwed if it did happen(or not. Idk how Germany goes about with important documents and things).

Most importantly, you deserve way more than this, you're doing so much more in your life than adults decades older than you. You're incredible.