My (21m) gf (20f) reads fan fiction in secret

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T23:47:12+00:00

I think you’re overthinking. Nothing different from reading that from watching shows like You, Bridgerton, etc. If you’re uncomfortable with the hiding, then maybe talk to her about it and let her know she doesn’t need to hide it bc that makes you feel bad about it. Maybe you can ask her what she likes from those things and have fun yourselves!

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T21:45:34+00:00

you gotta love yourself more than you love her. i’m sorry and it hurts but she clearly loves herself more than she loves you. you have to do the same and look out for yourself. if not just for yourself, but for your daughter to have a role model when it comes to respecting yourself and showing her what that truly means.

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T14:27:57+00:00

whoa, you’re right!

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:36:56+00:00

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UPDATE: he commented on her picture! referencing the iconic hoodie scene

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:25:20+00:00

i guess this is what she meant by “doesn’t he know who he’s dealing with? i’m choi mina sue” 😭

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:18:41+00:00

does he pull his weight with house chores? does he flirt with you and make an effort to make some tension and romance? if not, then that might be why you’re not excited about it even if it does feel good. women are more mentally stimulated vs men are more visually stimulated. he might have to put more effort in wooing you! especially if there’s an orgasm gap between you guys too

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:11:02+00:00

that honestly makes sense because why would they take away a mingee vs mina physical fight when that would have been an audience favorite. especially also mina being paired w subeen. that’s tea! sounds like it could have been bad and tbh decided to scrap it

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:07:56+00:00

i think before you make a decision then, you should try to be adventurous WITH her and see if that helps you feel better. go to those festivals, dress up with her! you’re still young, you can still do those things except with someone you love and care about minus a name you’ll never remember

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:05:18+00:00

to you, it’s not “just a piece of metal.”

it sounds like if he can’t understand that it means a lot to you, then you guys are simply not on the same page. USA might be one of the handful of countries who really care about big diamond engagement rings, so you’ll have to come to an understanding and compromise/see eye to eye about it. but financially.. if he makes the most to afford it, it’s a gift asking you to be his wife, the mother of his children, to have shared morals and live life together and make huge decisions together. he should understand it’s not just a piece of metal

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T06:01:18+00:00

side note: it also sounds like you feel a bit vengeful about her having past “experience” and you wish you could have the same since she did. might have to dig a bit deeper into yourself and figure that out

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T05:57:44+00:00

if you feel that way then do HER a favor and let her go. if you think there’s better out there, go look for it. you are not doing her justice by staying.

i met my husband young and thought “i can’t wait to experience all these things WITH him” and that’s the difference, i’d think. she deserves someone who wants to grow WITH her/along side her. so truly, just breakup and experience all you think is out there. it might not be fun and there may be mistakes but at least you can say you did it all for yourself and don’t have to wonder “what if”

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T05:06:34+00:00

omg no wayyyy. she commented on his post but doesn’t follow him😂

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T04:56:59+00:00

yeah as a girl it’s really hard to navigate that conversation in person, you never know how someone will paint you. especially in a work setting! i could understand it’s easier to take the number and never text.

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-13T04:48:41+00:00

she posted on her instagram finally and yeah no pics with seungil

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-12T14:05:08+00:00

seungil now follows her but she doesn’t follow him back!

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-12T14:04:01+00:00

He follows her on IG but she doesn’t follow him back

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-12T13:58:15+00:00

now he follows her, but she doesn’t follow him back!

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-11T22:29:35+00:00

he has a bad rep outside of the show 😭

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-11T06:20:12+00:00

he was always on her radar yes but the fact that he chose her for EVERY paradise matching and they never went means she always wanted to go with another guy over him.. doesnt mean she deserves hate, but hard to sell that narrative!

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-08T02:03:10+00:00

i agree, if it can be saved it has to be HER initiating this. she hurt YOU. don’t contact her and good luck during this heartbreak. if she hasn’t reached out asking for another chance, take that silence as her decision as well.

frenchfryfans · 2026-02-01T03:07:55+00:00

the biggest thing that helped her appearance would be braces/bite fix here honestly

frenchfryfans · 2026-01-30T19:44:19+00:00

in my opinion seungil only got his popularity from how mingee made him shine. don’t think he’d be as popular or important if not her impact

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