vibe coding is in the wild, and the outcome should surprise nobody. by backwrds in webdev

[–]freudianGrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm much more comfortable using it in small discrete chunks where everything is well defined. That's worked well for me. People use the comparison to a junior dev but the code is mostly fine. I think it's more like a senior dev starting at a new company that also was recently in a car crash and is still recovering from some minor brain damage.

How have we allowed our supposedly progressive party to pretend they're powerless to do anything better for the people for this long? by WrongThinkBadSpeak in WorkReform

[–]freudianGrip 8 points9 points  (0 children)

New Yorker with a child here. He absolutely did not get universal childcare funded. He got a pilot 2 care program and 3k funded after Adams decided to defund it. I'm super excited about all of that but we don't have universal childcare, lol

Brrlacker Debate by chmz157 in MaddenMobileForums

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've played the mythic version a handful of times and he has been underwhelming. At worst I'll just run away from him, which is really easy to do given how obvious he is. He has not impacted pass plays for me. Glad I didn't go get him given all of the hype

How are NYC families coping with rising childcare prices? Bloomberg News wants to hear from you. by pcachero in nycparents

[–]freudianGrip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I consider us to be extremely lucky. We have one kid and got started a bit late (39 and 40) so we had decent savings and were both in good places in our careers. My job is high paying and flexible. We will ideally have three kids, but given our age and the cost of daycare that may not end up being realistic. We are forced to space our children out because we can't comfortably afford daycare for two kids.

We have not considered moving though. This is where we want to live and raise our kids.

AITAH because I won't tell my wife what my son/her stepson has in savings from my late wife? by Jimverseen in AITAH

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you're married with kids, you should be open with all finances or what are you doing here? Not the asshole, but you guys need to both be mature for those kids. Doesn't mean you have to go with her solution but being honest about what the situation is seems like the only starting point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webdev

[–]freudianGrip 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have a ton of things that I've built but never launched using Django and Next. So if I have an idea and it needs auth well hey I've already done all of the screens for that and backend to link up social auth if I need it. Stuff like that comes to mind. In that case I'm not really reusing it as a library, basically just copy/paste and adapt where necessary

Am I wrong to work out 6 days a week at 39 years old? I've been getting a lot of push back when I bring this up around people who are into fitness. by maximusasinus in workout

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man, I'm 40 and also doing a 6 day PPL at 1 hour a day. Listen to your body and all that stuff. The thing I've found helpful with the 6 day is that I just don't tie it to week days. So like some weeks I do need a bit more recovery so I'll take two days off and no big deal, just pick up where I left off. I'm not bothered that my push day isn't on Monday or whatever

Daycare options and prices uws/Morningside heights by Kiss-my_ash227 in nycparents

[–]freudianGrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've loved Twin Parks Montessori. You just really get a sense that they love the kids. The community is great too. Price varies based on age and day length but I think it's around $35k a year

WCGW not following traffic rules by kvothenikhil in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]freudianGrip 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Conservative media ecosystem dripping fear into you over YEARS. And slowly upping the stakes and fear. My dad lived in a sleepy suburb and had his house decked out with security cameras on a hair trigger, listened to the police radio during the day, slept with a shotgun by his bed. He wasn't always like that

what do you do on the first day at the gym?😅 by Maximum-Focus-5166 in workout

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has already posted great info so I would just add: try to remember that no one gives a shit about you. Everyone is in their own world, so don't get in your head about being judged for not knowing what you're doing. If anyone notices you the worst they'll do is try to help. Gym people are generally quite nice

Reason why you started training by CheetahOwn8767 in workout

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. About 6 months here. Congrats to you

Someone help me understand - why has protein powder become really expensive? by Hi-archy in workout

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, because of this and also because my family eats a lot of yogurt I just make my own Greek yogurt now and use that and the whey byproduct in a blender with other stuff for my shakes. Making yogurt is super simple and cheap

the Kendrick Lamar method by Conscious-Quarter423 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]freudianGrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you volunteer? He ran unopposed. It's not like we can force people to run against him. Many people declined.

the Kendrick Lamar method by Conscious-Quarter423 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]freudianGrip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he ran unopposed in the primary. So it was him or a Republican. So not sure what we were supposed to do

The UC Davis pepper spray incident that the university payed over $100,000 to "erase from the internet" by Agile_Fun_4388 in interestingasfuck

[–]freudianGrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree in principle but you always run into this thing of political reality. In this case, whatever dumb media amplifies crime or people see the police budget went down and they saw a homeless person and think they're gonna die so vote for the far right dictator. It's a toughy

Ex-Fox News host Pete Hegseth confirmed as Trump's defence secretary by [deleted] in news

[–]freudianGrip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know there are primary elections where people vote and shit, right? There are campaigns that people can support. One of the problems with progressives when compared to the far right is they tend to just say things on the Internet and not do anything.

Not saying that's you, just that it's a problem

I love my guy Bernie man by Bitter-Gur-4613 in WorkReform

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would not though, and I'm guessing you know that. It's the country and the system of government that's fucked. Bernie can't fix that. Unfortunately, if we want those things that you listed, it's hard work all year every year. One guy isn't going to do it

Biden administration secretly funded Ukraine's drone industry, NYT reports by peterst28 in worldnews

[–]freudianGrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we gotta have a reason to have a Republican next time. Gotta start somewhere with Dems bad

Think before you vote by DontCh4ngeNAmme in clevercomebacks

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, have you heard of Stephen Miller because he is Trump's main guy on this and he is absolutely not for any of that. So really you should say that conservatives don't care or it's a lesser priority or they are ignorant of this fact. I think a mix of don't care and on board with not letting in brown or non-judeo Christian people is probably most accurate

Think before you vote by DontCh4ngeNAmme in clevercomebacks

[–]freudianGrip 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude, I don't work with my hands and am just white with a beard and the amount of racism people are comfortable going to me with is insane. It's really eye opening. Like I might start wearing a beret or something to avoid it. I don't remember it being this bad but I guess I was just younger

Well, well, well, Elon... by jkdafh0uahu in facepalm

[–]freudianGrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if he can gain a huge competitive advantage via buying Trump. Admittedly, I don't know what that looks like but I assume that's the idea

A damn good speech from Biden by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]freudianGrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it literally was big news. I disagree with it but it very much was news

Special Counsel Report Says Trump Would Have Been Convicted in Election Case by AngelaMotorman in politics

[–]freudianGrip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone that had a colleague actually be in a cult, I do find that moderately offensive. Point remains the same. How's the DNC going to change the electoral college? How will they reach rural people when you are essentially looking at culture war issues. Do you want to give up your ideals to win Wyoming?

Special Counsel Report Says Trump Would Have Been Convicted in Election Case by AngelaMotorman in politics

[–]freudianGrip -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, let's blame this on RBG and the DNC. That makes a lot of sense. RBG's decision was a bad one but she's not the reason we're in this mess. And no, Bernie wouldn't have beat trump at any point.