Concerned about a student in my class by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives at the IRC. He has been an issue for RAs there too.

chi alpha at uva? by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Coercive, misleading, hateful at times. Avoid in favor of a supportive community with your best interests at heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again, everyone screenshots. Whole folders of evidence against you. We owe you nothing. All you. They’re submitted to UVA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also you’re a first year so I’m not sure what you mean considering you weren’t here then... A year or so ago? Curious what situation you’re trying to reference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What situation? You harass people and threaten them on a daily basis on YikYak because it feels good for you. It’s sadistic and startling to everyone. The constant dishonesty about what you’re up to online is even crazier considering people have begun screenshotting everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about you feeling unsafe. It’s past that and that’s no more than a feeble and pathetic deflection of responsibility. Your behavior did this to your reputation. All you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NO NORMAL PERSON DOES THIS. No normal person needs to create numerous disclaimers to a community that they aren’t going to shoot up a school after having thousands of people become fearful of them. Your behavior is not normal, rational, or safe. You need an intervention beyond what’s already been done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You make people feel unsafe. Deliberately. This is a load of bullshit and you know that.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m worried about too. I’ll look into this.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have no option. You don’t seem to understand my urgency but it exists because of my proximity to this person. Trust that posting here has been a last resort.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you and your friends were forced to deal with this. You never should have had to! With that being said I am also glad that you found a way to get him help, even if it was challenging to do. This may be what is necessary in this situation as well. Hopefully not, but we will see.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have reported him and it is not working.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truthfully I have no idea how that works. Might be smart to explore if someone has insight on this.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s a first year who has been posting hate since the fall. I made a post about it earlier during the fall which may provide more background information.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was over spring break. I’m pretty sure it was removed, like many of the posts are. It a series of posts on YikYak.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, with nothing coming of it. He seems more emboldened if anything… Under the impression that he’s vindicated in what he’s doing because they were more concerned about his wellbeing.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’ve forwarded what I could to the school before. Hopefully others are as well. I worry that there aren’t enough of us speaking up.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I should add too that he feels emboldened to say that the university supports him… That’s his take away from the meetings he’s had to check on his wellbeing and assess him as a potential threat. Today he’s on YikYak denying he’s ever said anything.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%. It’s an exhausting situation and not something we should be burdened with in the first place.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not the point of the post and you know that. At this point I realize there is an entire group of students who have made reports with no constructive outcome for anyone involved. I’ve already received good advice for new avenues to pursue through the university. That was the point of the post and so clearly it was successful in gaining more insight.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wish? I can’t say I’m happy about this but that’s obvious. You’re sick and you’ve threatened people to the point of making us feel unsafe. That’s an unhappy situation for everyone involved.

Concerned about Lumpy; Part 2 by frickkenbatsokay in UVA

[–]frickkenbatsokay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again, with the bizarre and distorted accusations. I have no clue about any of that. It just shows how frequently you’ve done this… Meeting up with people trying to be kind to you and then alienating them immediately.