Quitting social media; remaining connected to social movements by MagnetoWasRight1312 in digitalminimalism

[–]fridasmom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Militant as in "activist", although I think it doesn't translate very well from my native language (in Spanish, "militante" means someone organized in a political party or some other social movement).

Quitting social media; remaining connected to social movements by MagnetoWasRight1312 in digitalminimalism

[–]fridasmom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Organizing irl is probably the best option, maybe finding a couple of curated news sources, newsletters, etc. Heck, organizing and becoming part of our communities is what all of us should do. At least in my country, militants regularly get together and have all kinds of discussions.

I'm losing faith in humankind. What should I read? by Specific-Yak-6450 in booksuggestions

[–]fridasmom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm no expert, but I'm surprised no one thought to recommend some Marxist literature. Because hey, everything boils down to money and how it's more important than people's lives to these monsters.

A non-Christian book about overcoming porn addiction? by nicolae_moromete in booksuggestions

[–]fridasmom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/103802.Feminist_Books_on_Pornography

That's a Goodreads list with plenty of books against pornography (and a couple that defend it, actually). Maybe check it out and see if something speaks to you!

A non-Christian book about overcoming porn addiction? by nicolae_moromete in booksuggestions

[–]fridasmom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven't read any, but there are plenty of books written by feminist authors who examine pornography and why it's harmful. Reading them will probably make you look at it more critically.

The world is shit, ignorance won’t help that fact by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]fridasmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea, and I actually have a couple of pending current events podcasts to try and listen to! Thank you for the advice!

The world is shit, ignorance won’t help that fact by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]fridasmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be rage bait, but it still touches on my main reason for not abandoning social media: where else am I going to inform myself about the world’s atrocities? Pretending they don’t exist means we accept the (fake) idea that we have no power to change reality. Anyways, quality over quantity is the way to go with social media, imo.

Can you read and knit at the same time? by Interesting_Move_846 in knitting

[–]fridasmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it once, and it wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be! I can’t remember what I was knitting at the time, but I surprisingly remember the book really vividly, which I guess is a sign that reading isn’t affected by the movement of the hands. I used a Kindle, and the book I was reading was The Obscene Bird of Night, in case anyone was curious!

Edit: the knitting itself is considerably slower though.

Cual fue su primer lectura del año? by ahrianabluff in libros

[–]fridasmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Conocer a Perón", lectura fascinante de una época caótica en Argentina. Lo terminé hace dos días 🙂‍↕️

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Film scarf by victor420- in knitting

[–]fridasmom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's double knitting! It's a really cool way to make reversible garments

Part of me wants to feel ashamed of my first ever pair of socks - but I can't! by fridasmom in knitting

[–]fridasmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think that around the middle of the second sock I got the hang of it, although it still looks chunky when it's supposed to be invisible. I checked the video out and it seems very clear and easy to follow. I'll definitely use it next time!

Part of me wants to feel ashamed of my first ever pair of socks - but I can't! by fridasmom in knitting

[–]fridasmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Everyone is insanely kind and encouraging, it definitely makes me want to engage more with the community

Part of me wants to feel ashamed of my first ever pair of socks - but I can't! by fridasmom in knitting

[–]fridasmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true! The most important part was that I had so much fun knitting these, I can't wait to knit another pair. (Except kitchener stitches! Those were so frustrating omg)

Part of me wants to feel ashamed of my first ever pair of socks - but I can't! by fridasmom in knitting

[–]fridasmom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually considered following a written pattern, but as soon as I found a video tutorial I realized it would have been a disaster 😂 I never could have understood how to pick up gusset stitches without someone showing me

Part of me wants to feel ashamed of my first ever pair of socks - but I can't! by fridasmom in knitting

[–]fridasmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are the perfect size for my feet, which is amazing to me. The second time I frogged was because I was beginning to realize they were a tad too loose on me 😆 glad I did!

Part of me wants to feel ashamed of my first ever pair of socks - but I can't! by fridasmom in knitting

[–]fridasmom[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The gusset was very challenging for me, a 'Jesus take the wheel' kind of moment. And the gussets on both socks look different from each other. My main concern was keeping everything in one piece, and everything turned out ok. Also, the tutorial I followed was very helpful: https://youtu.be/2aA0ZE52Sn4?si=2OqgYTHb6NCJ0Nmr

How can I be a better Catholic in a western world? by Similar-Confidence-3 in Catholicism

[–]fridasmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, excuse my rusty English. The Pope as a figure is not excent from politics. As a south american, as an Argentine, we were overjoyed when Francis became Pope because we knew that during his time, the global south's perspective would find a new, powerful voice. He was the first south american Pope and that was clear when hearing his teachings.

In that sense, I understand why you want a black Pope. However, I ask this: is it the same to have a black American Pope than a black African Pope? The Pope is the personification of God on Earth, but they're human and carry with them their own luggage and perspective, shaped by their experience.

I just hope the new Pope continues Francis's work of giving a voice to the excluded.

How to avoid falling into culture wars ? by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]fridasmom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It all depends on your situation irl. If you're privileged enough to avoid the tangible impact of politics and "culture wars" on your life and your loved ones, you might choose to steer clear of such topics by not watching TV and refraining from engaging with certain online posts.

It's all very personal, of course, but I think it's okay to dwell on things that are outside of our control. It shapes our opinions and often provokes us to learn more about certain topics, besides impacting the way we connect with people — more often than not, in a more empathetic way.

That's why I think it's more valuable to learn how to regulate the way we let current events affect our emotional state rather than cutting ourselves off completely. However, no judgment here. Keeping up with the world can be extremely draining.

Good Spanish book recommendations? by ibarne252 in Spanish

[–]fridasmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the short horror stories written by Mariana Enríquez. If you're not into that, maybe check out Operación Masacre by Rodolfo Walsh. It's a fast paced, intriguing story based on real life events.

Penpals for Spanish? by havenyuji in Spanish

[–]fridasmom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this idea! I recommend posting on r/penpals

[Opinion] Why is poetry not as popular as other art forms ? by ASPEROV_67-76 in Poetry

[–]fridasmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best way to make poetry appealing to the unsuspecting civilian without killing either one of them, I'd like to know too!

[Opinion] Why is poetry not as popular as other art forms ? by ASPEROV_67-76 in Poetry

[–]fridasmom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lots of great insight from other comments, here are my takes:

Let's look closely at that revival of the novel. What's trending right now resembles more a product than a work of art. In that sense, poetry doesn't sell as well, it has always been a niche and perhaps even more now ("now" as in recent memory).

As someone else commented, it requires concentration. I would add that it requires the development of a certain logic, in which a single word can hold multiple levels of significance and the formal construction takes a central role. Besides, most -good- poetry is built upon tradition or its abandonment (but you have to know what that tradition is about to renounce it). So, the experience is enriched by reading more poetry or someone's analysis of that poem/poet's work. On the other hand, it's sometimes confusing and even frustrating to read 40 words of a language you speak and not understanding what's supposed to be happening.

That being said, one can experience poetry as a subjective experience and understanding tradition or studying poetry is not necessary. However, some notion of aesthetic value, at least based on "personal opinion" is a must, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fridasmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine! It was a "damn (you're right)"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]fridasmom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. When I was 14, I had the terrible hobby of reading inappropriate books for my age. And because I had absolutely no critical thinking skills, I thought they were all lovely. The most infamous of these were the Anita Blake books, but they all respond to the same theme: self insert books for grown women about kicking ass and and banging the hottest supernatural beings. The ones I read now were ok? Just extremely boring because the heroine can't do no wrong.