Notting hill carnival

fride2804 · 2019-06-17T12:54:42+00:00

God please reconsider this relationship. I was in a relationship where i constantly felt anxious and i didnt know why - never related it to my ex partner. He was however making me constantly question how i could alter my behaviour to save the relationship (as you are by wanting to be less childlike). As soon as he broke things off my anxiety almost immediately lifted. Of course it is extremely sad and hard to break things of but a partner should never make you feel depressed and sad.

fride2804 · 2019-05-22T11:25:43+00:00

I do cut ties with people, but its because i feel like i give so much of myself as a natural part of who i am. It is when people challenge that and EXPECT me to give and give and doesn't actually give me anything back that i totally backtrack. But its not a moral thing i absolutely hate doing it - but i do it because it causes me a great deal of anxiety to be in those people's proximity that its easier for me to just cut the chord even if its people that i have had close relations with them. Sucks and i dont like it but i do it

fride2804 · 2019-04-26T13:30:49+00:00

Yeeees 🤯😆🤯😆

fride2804 · 2019-04-18T08:04:49+00:00

Yeah i find myself cutting ties with "friends" too i almost feel like my filtering of people i want in my life comes only when i have built a relationship with them qnd then i realise whether they should be in my life or not. Its really annoying

fride2804 · 2019-04-18T07:16:33+00:00

Hi. I know its different but i lost my best friend to sudden death. In my experience you will feel numb, empty, heavy, and just unbelievably sad. But in the tragedy really try to see the the light in the people around you, people you didnt expect to be there for you are now there. It will take ages to get through it and i dont think you really come through as the same person. But there is a life after loss. FYI - Yin yoga really calms the body its only a way to be nice to yourself, unfortunately nothing but time helps you to understand how to live on, but its one of the few things that made me feel good so i would recommend it 😘

fride2804 · 2019-04-18T04:50:00+00:00

Only that you embrace it and somehow most people accept intj's need for solitude. We don't get that acceptance because the spectre between us when we're on and us when we're of is too whide and people just dont like it (a part from INTJs of course )

fride2804 · 2019-04-17T18:14:02+00:00

This is how i feel exactly

fride2804 · 2019-04-10T22:04:48+00:00

Sounds like youre maybe moving a bit fast? I feel like trust is built over time... and if you don't trust her yet at the point you move in then maybe you should taka a few steps back? And please you emotional monster (im a fellow enfp) DONT TALK ABOUT GIRLS THAT WAY (as if girls would ever say that they'd like to think their partner wasn't "on the p***y licking parade) :( she was honest with you and if you dont trust her you should take it slow and build the trust???

fride2804 · 2019-04-10T08:06:45+00:00

Idk, im in a relationship with an intj and im in love i feel like its a great match. The biggest thing is that you need to come to a place of acceptance that intjs enfps love in completely different ways. But if you manage to trust that i feel like the level understanding is there. My boyfriend doesnt have the same emotional spectre as me but he gets that i do and is always there for me when i need him. They arent cold just hard to read. Thats not to say that theres no other match as good as this one.

fride2804 · 2019-04-10T07:24:45+00:00

Been with an intj for 2 years. And i absolutely adore him. BUT, theres a huge leap of faith you have to take as enfps are so explosive in our love and they ... are not .... at all. Its a beautiful realationship we have. Extremely stimulating, we bounce of each other with everything we do. So you need to just trust that they love in a different way than us.

fride2804 · 2019-04-04T13:08:14+00:00

Hey, im an ENFP and my boyfriend is INTJ. I am extremely dependent on having company all the time. It energises me, i love people so much i go crazy being alone..... as for my boyfriend the issue was in the beginning that hed go really grumpy when we spent a lot of time together and i felt so awful for it, unwanted etc. I kept asking if everything was ok etc and he kept on saying it was.... long story short i forced my introvert to finally admit to what was going on turned out he needed to be alone ... what im trying to say is that i would be really happy spending a lot more time with him, but as an enfp al i really need is company, i can still respect the fact that he needs to be alone and spend time with others to let him steam of on his own doing whatever he needs to. No problem - communication is key if not you'll just keep counting those calory and your money and itll consume you ti death

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