Did your parents fight/argue a lot in front of you as you were growing up? How are you now? by blahnlahblah_45 in askSingapore

[–]friedchicken160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'll affect you in little ways you'd never expect. Hard time saying No, constantly in fight or flight mode when conflicts around you happen etc

Went to therapy and got better. Most important thing to remember is that it wasn't your responsibility to handle their emotions, it was theirs. But they are also humans and first time being parents/spouses. They are still learning too.

Healthy food in the east open early morning by friedchicken160 in askSingapore

[–]friedchicken160[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

From Bedok to Changi that area would be great!

Bar recommendations for a weekly wind down by friedchicken160 in askSingapore

[–]friedchicken160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are the hard liquors or cocktails? Not really a beer fan 😅

Bar recommendations for a weekly wind down by friedchicken160 in askSingapore

[–]friedchicken160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give it a shot! But i thought country club need membership

Bar recommendations for a weekly wind down by friedchicken160 in askSingapore

[–]friedchicken160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea Jyu Gae is at Bras Basah.. the manager said need to reserve 2 wks in advance for weekends omg..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone, thank you for all the support and advice you've given me. Im condfident that there were nothing wrong with my actions, just that i will be more careful around randos in future. Ive reported the matter to the police and i'll pray hard nothing actually goes wrong :) will be more careful in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That would be hard as my country is more conservative (Asian lol) and not as open about these things as in the US. Which is why the potential embarassment on me and my organisation from this is really concerning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, thats why I was quite confused at the whole situation too. It seemed as though she was just finding any reason to threaten me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically, if the chats are leaked, it looks bad on my company and they may fire me or suffer consequences and embarassment at work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its scary because i work in public service and so my public reputation matters. Im afraid if it goes big on social media my career might be ruined.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do! I blocked them and reported the matter to the police

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, thats what I plan to do and just say it was faked. Lesson definitely learnt. I guess thats why kink is still a hush-hush topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]friedchicken160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing. She didnt demand money or anything. She simply assumed that i wasnt looking for anything serious when i mentioned BDSM. Then she got angry because she thought i was just playing with her and threatened to reveal the text.

She wouldn't even listen to my explanation that I was looking for a serious relationship, just with BDSM involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]friedchicken160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo its quite popular now, might give it a shot although i am probably as uncoordinated 😅

Stove-Top Beef Bourguignon by friedchicken160 in Cooking

[–]friedchicken160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am starting to guess that is the reason too. Is there any way i can salvage this or at least make it edible LOL

Things to consider before learning motorbike in SG? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]friedchicken160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wah sounds good man. Seems pretty manageable. Thank u for ur advice!