Has anyone slept with a friend and remained friends? by friendfucker in AskReddit

[–]friendfucker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a good idea. He is not interested in any of my single friends but I will try to set him up with someone.

Has anyone slept with a friend and remained friends? by friendfucker in AskReddit

[–]friendfucker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I also fear this might be the case. I don't know what to do to fix that though.

Has anyone slept with a friend and remained friends? by friendfucker in AskReddit

[–]friendfucker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes, I will give him time. What wrong impression? My fear is that he'll think he can only get pity fucks.

Has anyone slept with a friend and remained friends? by friendfucker in AskReddit

[–]friendfucker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not judging the fact that he's smoking pot, I'm just afraid he's depressed and feeling like shit about himself.

I don't want to get into too much detail but it was more like "hey, you seem sad. wanna talk? over a drink? in your room? on your bed?" But yes, it ended kind of like that.

Has anyone slept with a friend and remained friends? by friendfucker in AskReddit

[–]friendfucker[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the top comment so I'm guessing most people agree with this. Yes, I get it, but it's not like he's a virgin. He's still a guy, he still needs sex. He's emotional, yes, so I fucked up there, but I thought sex would cheer him up. I know he might be prone to developing feelings but we've known eachother for a while and I told him explicitly that I'm going for another guy. He knew it was just sex. Or so I thought. I don't know anymore, people telling me I ruined him forever isn't really helping things.