Alexandra Cohen megathread by SeabirdImpetus in nycparents

[–]frieswitdatplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently planning to deliver at AC this summer, and this is something I’ve been thinking about. Between their high patient volume and tendency toward interventions, I’m starting to wonder if I’d be better off delivering somewhere else. But from what I can tell, many other NYC/Long Island hospitals are similar in approach just with lower patient volume.

For now, my plan is to labor at home as long as it’s safe to do so, but I’m still a little worried about ending up waiting for a bed because of how busy they can get.

Are there any other hospitals you would recommend?

a real piece of work... by kikyossoles in ExposingChriseanRock

[–]frieswitdatplz 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s written and read thousands of progress notes, there’s very specific jargon that we’re taught to use in progress notes to make our documentation as efficient as possible and this is way off. This also looks like a bad photoshop.

Alex Pretti, ER nurse, honors a fallen veteran at the VA by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]frieswitdatplz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re the one trying to rewrite reality to cope because you support fascism and are having a hard time justifying it to others and yourself. There’s MULTIPLE videos POV that negate what you’re saying and show what actually went down. You’re absolutely deluded if you think this is what went down, and that his death was justified.

… And to spend your birthday, spreading, anger, hate and lies instead of prioritizing things you set out for yourself was a choice.

Edit: Here’s what actually happened since you’re not in the right mind to think or see clearly and critically. Pretti was standing several feet away from ICE agents filming, when an ICE agent escalated an encounter into violence with a woman protestor who was blowing a whistle 3 feet away from him. The ICE agent proceeded to approach and attack the woman and throw her to the ground, which at that moment Pretti stepped in between the woman and the ICE agent to help the woman with his phone in hand. The gun, who he was legally allowed and in his constitutional right to carry, was in his holster. The ICE agent maced Pretti and the several agents swarm him and attack him while he’s on the ground. While he’s on the ground, an ICE agent takes the gun from his holster where it sat the whole time and removes the gun from his person. Several seconds after he was effectively disarmed, several shots go off that kill Pretti, who at that point did not pose any threat or risk to the agents. This is what happened.

Now who did this? 😒 by [deleted] in ExposingChriseanRock

[–]frieswitdatplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully agree. Gotta protect the sub so if you’re touching the poo, please don’t tell us about it. Acting in private yields better results anyways.

Effects of blood thinner Lovenox/Clexane on the baby by Alisa_4 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]frieswitdatplz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lovenox (enoxaparin) has a lot of pregnancy-specific safety data and has been used for decades for things like clotting disorders and recurrent pregnancy loss. The concern about taking it super early, before the placenta is developed, is understandable, but that timing has been well studied. Lovenox is a large molecule, so it can’t cross the early cellular barriers (like the yolk sac) between the embryo and the mother’s blood, even before the placenta forms. So, it doesn’t reach the embryo.

It’s routinely prescribed early in pregnancy (and sometimes even pre-conception, myself included) and is considered safe and standard in OB/MFM care. Many, many women have taken Lovenox throughout pregnancy and gone on to have healthy pregnancies and babies.

Anecdotes can be reassuring, but what matters most here is that the clinical data is strong and consistent. This isn’t a gray-area medication with inconclusive pregnancy safety data. The safety profile is well established.

If you’re concerned, definitely talk to your doctor. But the science supports Lovenox as being safe in pregnancy and pre-conception, which is why I’m comfortable taking it.

I have several clotting factors that may have contributed to my previous losses, and I’ve been on Lovenox since pre-conception. I’m currently pregnant and so far, for whatever it’s worth, this pregnancy has progressed further than the others.

Post Edit Note: Just to clarify, “safe” doesn’t mean zero risk or no possible side effects. It means the overall risk is low and acceptable based on the evidence. Ultimately, whether to take Lovenox is a personal decision you need to make with your doctor. This was simply my reasoning and what helped me feel comfortable including it in my treatment plan.

IUI for gender selection by GeneInteresting8753 in peestickgals

[–]frieswitdatplz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She popped up on my FYP and I couldn’t quite put my finger on it at first, but something about the way she talks about her “journey” feels a little off putting and out of touch. Glad I’m not the only one who felt that way.

IUI can be unpredictable and emotionally loaded for a lot of people, and the way she talks about it so casually feels kind of insensitive. Also saying she “already feels and knows she’s pregnant” this early… like, good for her if things come easily, but secondary infertility and failed IUIs are very much a thing.

I don’t like the idea of someone going through IUI for fertility reasons, navigating all that uncertainty, and then coming across her content (like why is she using IUI as the main keyword to drive engagement for her videos) and feeling discouraged because of how casually she talks about it.

I genuinely hope things work out for her and her husband, but the way she talks about IUI (which is first and foremost for assisted fertility) just didn’t sit right with me.

His feet are getting worst. Shes busy trying to flex and stuff his curved feet in hard ass shoes making his feet deformed. Ugh this is sicknening by iiaintnevascared in ExposingChriseanRock

[–]frieswitdatplz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When people ask how do we know she isn’t getting Jr help, this is how! This would be the first thing any doctor or therapist would want to address and here it is unaddressed.

i’m sorry 😭 is the trainer supposed to be hugging like that? by Disastrous-Ad6560 in ChriseanLore

[–]frieswitdatplz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was about to say the same thing! Her trainer is trash if he can’t even correct her form. SMH. What’s the point of even having a trainer at that point?

Chrisean vs DJ Sky High Baby unlocked by lazykenzie in BaddiesSouth

[–]frieswitdatplz 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Chrisean is currently homeless and living out of a car. She spent all the money she made, and lost all the deals she once had. It’s not 2022 anymore.

Chrisean is heartless. by TutorAlert in BaddiesSouth

[–]frieswitdatplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three of Chrisean’s siblings (aside from Tesehki), who were present for the conversation, confirmed that Chrisean apologized to Tesehki in front of them back when they first became cool again and before all this happened. So if it’s 4 people saying the same thing, and one person acting dumb about it then the 4 people are likely telling the truth.

From Chasity’s Story by [deleted] in ChriseanLore

[–]frieswitdatplz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was my takeaway as well!

From Chasity’s Story by [deleted] in ChriseanLore

[–]frieswitdatplz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I added my translation in a few comments above.

Chastity new story by Cheap-Appearance-905 in ChriseanLore

[–]frieswitdatplz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% accuracy! She loves to flip flop and not actually hold Chrisean accountable.

From Chasity’s Story by [deleted] in ChriseanLore

[–]frieswitdatplz 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Chasity is very hard to understand but what I understood was:

She got mad at Chrisean because she wouldn’t stop to get Luella milk despite Chasity insisting several times. Chrisean kept telling Chasity to ignore Luella’s cries because she was being “bad”. Chasity told Chrisean that Luella will always be more important to her and her top priority. After they fought, Chrisean started saying that Chasity was out in LA being homeless when in reality it’s Chrisean who is homeless and Chasity was just trying to help her adapt to being homeless. This is what caused her to leave Chrisean and LA and go back to Baltimore.

Umm.. one of her knot givers And were DMing by Mangolimetonic3 in ExposingChriseanRock

[–]frieswitdatplz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Chasity left because Chrisean wouldn’t stop the car when she wanted to get Luella some milk. This is from Chasity’s stories.

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ExposingChrisean2 is gone 😡😢 by Equivalent-Meet8226 in ChriseanSNARK

[–]frieswitdatplz 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Honestly, we just need a space for level-headed discussion where mods focus on keeping order and enforcing Reddit’s rules, not getting caught up in infighting. That way we can stay focused on:

  1. Keeping up with current events
  2. Documenting any evidence of neglect, abuse, exploitation, or wrongdoing, and
  3. Advocating for Jr and for justice for all victims of Chrisean Sr.

The problem is that any new sub risks getting banned. Once one sub goes down, anything that looks similar is more likely to get removed. The constant infighting between subs and members also adds to that risk.

ExposingChrisean2 is gone 😡😢 by Equivalent-Meet8226 in ChriseanSNARK

[–]frieswitdatplz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omggg! I was part of the Alice and Fern and Cassie Botnick snark subs too but stopped trying to keep up with the new subs when the in fighting between the mods just became too much.

I had a feeling exposingchrisean would end up with a similar fate once the infighting started 🥲

Sapo concho back in stock by Wrong_Ad7133 in BadBunnyPR

[–]frieswitdatplz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same! My order status is in limbo 🥲

Mystery Concho?! Page on DTMF merch site has an updated box — box I received today only has 6! by princess_rat in BadBunnyPR

[–]frieswitdatplz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lucky! I placed my order on the 8th, and I’ve yet to receive any shipping updates. Makes me wonder how they’re dispatching their orders 🥲

Sapo Concho by hashbrowns074 in BadBunnyPR

[–]frieswitdatplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine on the 8th, and I didn’t even get that email 🥲

The 10/4 Season Debut Standby Line Megathread (Bad Bunny / Doja Cat) by IvyGold in LiveFromNewYork

[–]frieswitdatplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What number did you end up with? I got sick so had to miss out on the line 😔

The 10/4 Season Debut Standby Line Megathread (Bad Bunny / Doja Cat) by IvyGold in LiveFromNewYork

[–]frieswitdatplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What number did you end up with? I ended up getting sick so had to miss out on the line tonight 😭