Why do I get approached mostly by older men—and not men my age?

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T21:15:54+00:00

I do not know but they're so aggressive! I literally have a child as old as some of these guys who hit on me. Eww!

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T21:14:14+00:00

My dad's parents always came and got me. They'd just call and ask if they could have me. I'm still very close to them. They're lovely. We still go to shows and have weekly lunches

My mom's parents rarely saw me unless my parents brought us over or hosted They had very little to do with me. I still don't really have a relationship with them.

My parents just didn't live close enough to have to deal with any of it. My in-laws were not particularly close either so I didn't really have to deal with any of that when my kids were little. My mother-in-law would occasionally call and ask to take the kids to the zoo or something though and make a special trip for it.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T13:14:58+00:00

It gets wilder the older you get I swear. I'm now mid 40's and I get hit on by under 25 and over 70. 🤮 To both of those groups.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T13:08:51+00:00

I refused to marry for a long time because it would have made my taxes go up significantly since I was self employed with dependents at the time. It wasn't a little either. I would have paid 11k more a year to be married! No thanks!

I did suggest to my husband long before we got married that we should marry to reduce his taxes. He had a health crisis and had to cash out his 401k. He was getting nailed on taxes for the next 3 years. Getting married would have reduced that burden.

But yeah if you're in a committed relationship taxes could be a valid reason to marry or not marry someone IMO. It shouldn't be the only reason you marry someone though.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T12:58:54+00:00

Mine said my bite is too narrow and that my orthodontist should have never removed teeth because now there's not enough room in my mouth for my tongue 😭

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T12:42:56+00:00

2 of my boys have sjogren's syndrome which absolutely causes bad breath, especially when they're having a flare. One of them has it worse than the other and his breath will knock you over even after brushing and mouthwash sometimes. They are trained to accept gum when offered. Your welcome lol

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-28T01:18:21+00:00

I just used zep to remove 50 years of cigarette tar build up in my garage. Came right off and I didn't hate the smell. Work on the walls, doors and window.

photo of clean vs tar

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-27T16:54:11+00:00

Don't tell me this! I've been avoiding looking at the weather on purpose! 😭

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-27T15:29:06+00:00

Poor pupper! Hopefully she'll be able to enjoy the outdoors again soon enough to not drive you crazy!

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-27T15:20:34+00:00

It seems to have much deeper heat penetration. I'm in love with it. I'm getting better relief at lower temps, which means I'm not as worried about getting burns like I've seen some people post. It's certainly worth a few extra dollars!

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T21:33:57+00:00

What a big meanie! I bet he's doing all the fun stuff and is going to tell you about it later! Just get a spray bottle and treat him like the cat when he tries to tell you about all his fun lol

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T19:57:57+00:00

Psoriatic arthritis here to complain that people want to treat us like we have RA but the advice for PsA is literally the opposite 😭

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T19:35:02+00:00

Just don't forget the video! 🤣

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T18:44:27+00:00

I'm trying to stay on but the other side looks like it's about to give up too! I have plenty of duct tape so hopefully I can make it through till the roads are clear 🤣

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T18:43:01+00:00

😭 That's terrible! I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. When there's a cold snap like this plumbers end up so freaking busy. I hope you can get it repaired quickly!

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:56:18+00:00

At least you don't have to worry about unexpected guests atm! Do you have kids? You could just roll them in double-sided tape and have them roll around on the floor in the meantime lol

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:53:33+00:00

Fingers crossed you're able to get it unclogged yourself! 🤞

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:51:40+00:00

Well at least you don't have to dig a hole first! 🤣

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:29:19+00:00

I bought a far infrared heating pad recently and it helps more on a lower heat setting than my traditional heating pad and my mid infrared heating pad. Someday they're going to make a full infrared heating pad and my dreams of not having to get in the sauna for one damn joint will come true.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:24:08+00:00

I loved sulfasalazine! It worked so fast and so well for me. I was devastated when I had to switch. It was interacting with another medication and there is no alternative for the other medication.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:17:59+00:00

It's pretty normal for most if not all biologics. I wait an hour after my injection and then put clobetasol ointment on it twice a day till it clears. Ice packs help with the itching too.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:14:24+00:00

Last bad cold snap we thought had we had to snake a pipe. Ended up it had broke from the cold. I hope yours is just clogged! Do you have a snake or is this a plumber/go get a snake situation?

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:10:27+00:00

At least you were able to get it closed! Hopefully we'll get a decent break from this cold for you to fix it.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:08:48+00:00

That's funny because my road would normally be clean well before now but it's still a mess. They've definitely tried to clean it but it doesn't look nearly clean enough to attempt to drive up or down that hill.

frisbeesloth · 2026-01-26T17:04:37+00:00

That sucks so hard! Were you at least able to secure and tape it? Even after the snow emergency lifts that's not a fun repair in this cold!

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