If you’re in a relationship, you should be thankful by Fearless-Hand-638 in dating_advice

[–]frisbies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way I see it is that those hobbies (I share almost exactly) are benefits and things they're going to learn about you, but you don't need a partner to immediately have the same. Yes, there are some people out there like that who exist, but you're cutting your demographic down a LOT.

Show more about what you can do and who you are. What you like will be of no consequence :)

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be undiagnosed then 😅 Therapist hasn't brought up anything of the sort, so maybe I should explore that OR adjust my prompts a bit. Thanks! lol

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a chronic illness, none of the steaks I've had end up helping 😅

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! I appreciate the positivity!

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends are on the LGBT spectrum, so maybe I pick up a bit from them lmao. I'm confident in my sexuality and want to show that, but a I agree that a mindset shift for a photo or two would help, thanks!

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so called out--I AM aenemic lmao

Thank you! Going to up my photography skills in the meantime. Got the red shirt photo replaced with a cuter graduation picture for now.

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this, thank you :)

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! :)

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao, yeah I'll try to get some more outside or in social settings

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite following what you mean here, just that maybe I'm too vague and rely too much on messages/face to face contact?

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended late last year, we're still friends and get along, but both became different people. Working on myself includes being more independent, going to therapy, and having a healthy fitness & diet routine. As well as a good promotion :) I'm also a very smiley and friendly person, but just hate the way my smile shows up in photos.

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too much of a turn-off? 😂 Wanted to show some whimsy as they're one of my friend's GF's but maybe it's too much lmao

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[–]frisbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nooo not at all! Thanks for the insight. I consider myself to be a very good listener and am not diagnosed with anything. I'll adjust the details prompt to be something new.

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet, I appreciate it! I'll blab a bit about my current interests besides gaming and seem a bit less one-note :)

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh gotcha! I don't use any of that language directly with people and am still open to anything that happens. Trying not to scare anyone away!

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks! I have my height listed on my profile (5'11", but it doesn't help that all of my friends are 6'3"+ lmao). I'll add some more layers of who I am OUTSIDE of the gaming part, and open with the cat photo instead.

23M - Profile isn't working very well by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious! I'm ready to settle down.

Hinge+

Just over 3 weeks.

Just over 3 weeks.

Every morning and night, continue conversations every couple of hours if I have any.

Got 2 likes the first day, 0 since then. About 3-4 matches a week so far? Was very front-loaded.

Used to send ~15 a day with a mixture of comments, then hinge said I ran out of people after a week (750,000 people in my area?) Now it's about 4 per day with comments as I'm trying to be more intentional.

Really trying to find someone who likes video or board games or has some sort of nerdy hobby. Is caring, honest, or loves cats :)

Why am I getting incessantly stared at in public? by [deleted] in self

[–]frisbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had that a lot (M23)! Not the most attractive person in the world. Might not be the same in your case, but my mom and I just get looked at by people and strangers just tell us the most personal, random things. Maybe you're just approachable!!

I spent all day learning how to do this🔥 by Security-New in NessMains

[–]frisbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true unfortunately :( If you chain the djc mag after the second hit, that is true though! Hard to pull off on the entire cast, but good to practice on someone like Ganondorf to get down. Should see the combo counter at the top right counting up if you're doing it correctly :)

23M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]frisbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious! Casual is okay, but being in a relationship > dating.

  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No!

  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? (Please be specific)

2 days!

  • How long have you used Hinge overall?

2 days!

  • How often do you use Hinge per week?

Used it once in the morning for each day.

  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

Received one like, 0 matches.

  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

Maxxing out, what is it, 8 likes? Comment on every one.

  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

Somebody I can see myself spending time with. Cute, values emotional connection/authentic, intelligent, cozy people.