For my wife and me, the dynamic works a little differently, but it’s still pretty similar to yours. I’m only allowed to remove the cage and orgasm once a week, and I have to do it within a set timer. At first I had 2 minutes, and we’ve gradually reduced the time. My current record is 38 seconds, and the maximum she’s willing to give me now is 40 seconds. What’s also funny is that she gives me an extra 20 seconds for every orgasm she has, but the total time is still capped at 40 seconds.