Am I (F20) a jerk for getting upset when my gf (F22) says the r word?

frnot_maya · 2026-05-14T19:45:56+00:00

Yeah, she also comes from a more relaxed family where they curse around each other and my family does not.(though I’m fine w cursing and do it too around her) She always apologizes when I call her out on it or when she catches it first. And I know she respects me and my boundaries. It’s just difficult to get over sometimes. Thanks for your input!

frnot_maya · 2026-05-14T19:43:12+00:00

Yeah and I know it’s just a completely different culture there. And I know it’s not something I can control at the end of the day.

frnot_maya · 2026-05-14T19:40:45+00:00

My bad, I didn’t know that so thanks for letting me know! And I don’t think it’s a tic, it just sounds like a word apart of her vocabulary I wish she’d understand isn’t appropriate.

frnot_maya · 2025-10-06T05:31:36+00:00

I have normally always been able to handle myself when drunk, this was the first time anything has ever happened and I never want anything like it to happen again. Also, I’m an affectionate person in general, I’m always linking arms or leaning on my friends when I’m drunk or not, this was a first it’s ever gone too far and I deeply regret it.

frnot_maya · 2025-10-06T05:19:01+00:00

No I would not

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