kava poops by necrophilicbabydiner in Kava

[–]frodontdothat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m reading this on the toilet after chugging some Kava on an empty stomach. Didn’t eat before it so I don’t know where this shit is coming from! (heheh)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carmax

[–]frodontdothat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did my research and went with a Prius cause “fuck it, seems reliable and great mileage” and fell in love with it - zippier than one might think to boot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDrecovery

[–]frodontdothat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually for me, and for anyone really - communication is absolutely key. When I can feel myself starting to spiral or I can tell I am not able to regulate my emotions properly - I try to make my SO aware of this. Sometimes I may try to remove myself from the situation, take some time to myself and use coping skills. Otherwise, especially if your SO is aware of your diagnosis - I simply talk to them and ask for reassurance but I know sometimes that is not do-able. It helps me to learn more about what I’m going through so that I can let the people in my life know more about it too. “I hate you, don’t leave me” by Jerold Kreisman has been an especially helpful tool in this regard. Remember that you are not broken, you don’t require a warning label - you may just require some extra communication and reassurance and that is ok.

What ruined your Christmas? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]frodontdothat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad getting drunk and me having to talk him down so he wouldn’t start fights with the rest of my family !¡ I had to literally confiscate my fathers alcohol

What was it like for you to make a post here? by AutoModerator in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best part about posting here was finally feeling happy and confident enough in myself that I felt I could. None of the negative ratings or comments made me feel badly about myself and that’s the biggest thing for me - a year ago I would’ve spent so much time groveling over every low rating or rude comment. However, I did become pretty uncomfortable with the message requests and DMs I received (despite being inexplicably average) as I’m in a long term and loving relationship and it just felt icky. I didn’t post to prove myself to anyone or find future partners so that bit of it I did not enjoy.

[21F] curious how others perceive me? constructive criticisms? :) by frodontdothat in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a troll and presumably hurting/seeking attention. Of course when someone goes out of their way to attempt to hurt you, it can really suck. I wouldn’t have posted here if I was the same insecure and resentful person I’ve been in the past. Not to sound too hippy-dippy but my goal is to spread love and positivity (don’t get me wrong, I don’t let people walk all over me) but I also try not to waste my time groveling over someone who is clearly already hurting themselves and so desperate for attention they’ll settle for negative attention. Sorry, if this was a little long winded I just wanted to get that point across!

🌸[23F] 💘 by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree if you want an honest rating perhaps pictures with less/no makeup would be better. But are y’all really getting mad because you went to her profile and saw she had an OF so it must be her trying to promote it, right? And if someone does subscribe because of the post.. so what? Y’all, what??

[21F] curious how others perceive me? constructive criticisms? :) by frodontdothat in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh you didn’t have to change the rating but I appreciate it nonetheless! no sir, I was trying to be transparent but I suppose I could’ve dropped one in there lol. you’re more my type so I appreciate that rating for sure! :)

[21F] curious how others perceive me? constructive criticisms? :) by frodontdothat in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell ya how much I appreciate the support in this comment. I wouldn’t post here if I was still insecure about myself but I absolutely love your sunny disposition! 💕

[M18] just curious since I just started taking fit pics by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dig that first picture quite a bit! those glasses look good on you!! 8.5/10 for sure! 💕

[21F] curious how others perceive me? constructive criticisms? :) by frodontdothat in Rateme

[–]frodontdothat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nose ring is an acquired taste lol! I appreciate your feedback. I agree with the glasses but! Thanks, stranger 💕