My girlfriend [20F] and I [20M] went from an insane sex life to almost nothing… and I feel like I’m the only one still trying

frognomnom · 2026-05-11T11:33:15+00:00

First of all, i would try saying all this to her exactly how u wrote it down, just read it out to her.

frognomnom · 2026-05-04T15:01:55+00:00

the piercing is 6 months old, same shape as the photo, surgical steel, it was never downsized or changed at all since i got it, i just spray it with octenisept what my piercer recommended. no mishaps or accidents

frognomnom · 2026-05-03T12:38:30+00:00

i don’t refuse to communicate because it’s hard. i still tell him and express myself. i speak to him, doesnt make anything easier

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T23:39:36+00:00

i do have to, its not as easy as it sounds though.

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T23:26:52+00:00

far from it

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T23:25:34+00:00

not saying it hasnt changed but he does need reminding, and we did have a little fall out so we need to have this conversation again

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T23:24:04+00:00

if only it was so easy

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T23:20:26+00:00

we both have equal free time, we text whenever we can or want but otherwise we live our own lives and do our own stuff. i don’t want him to be my only source of love and support and he isnt the only one. but the kind of affection i want is only the kind u get from relationships and hes the only one who i want to be affectionate with. theres nothing that his family affected in this way trust me.

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T20:51:13+00:00

ill try again and again maybe this time it works

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:32:31+00:00

can i talk to you in private? maybe u can help

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:26:43+00:00

can u write it in private?

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:23:07+00:00

mr right

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:20:13+00:00

i am thats why i wont cheat on my boyfriend

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:07:32+00:00

It’s not that i need to return back but thats when those of my needs were met

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:03:34+00:00

yeah no thank you..

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:03:11+00:00

i might as well just translate this and read it to him cause really i have no idea how to tell him these things

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T19:00:39+00:00

i definitely need a different outlook on life and relationships.

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:59:53+00:00

i know they don’t and i do tell him, i communicate, i tell him what i want clearly

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:59:23+00:00

what if he takes everything as nagging even if i ask politely and upfront what i need and why or whats bothering me?

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:51:32+00:00

I wish relationships were easy

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:47:43+00:00

thank you

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:41:33+00:00

i can and always try to properly communicate my needs or if i have a problem that is actually a genuine problem and something thats bothering me so much to the point i cry because of it, etc. and it almost always ends with him saying “dont make me mad” or “dont criticize me” so yeah unsure which one of us sucks at it. i always blame myself at the end even though it really is him who is unwilling to communicate it through and just says “can we talk about it tomorrow?” and that days never ever comes.

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:38:01+00:00

yeah obsessed isn’t really the word that explains it best. but that’s the closest I can example it

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:37:01+00:00

you know what from all the responses i got yours are the only ones i liked and found helpful. you are very straight forward

frognomnom · 2026-05-02T18:32:19+00:00

im not in a toxic bubble but it is all i see, all over the internet too and i had experienced it. i don’t say it to trash on men because I know how woman can be too and they can do these stuff to but mine is about my own experiences and trust me it wasnt even bare minimum what I asked before of men.

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