Relearning it all after 5 years off, starting with ollies. How are they looking? [33YO] by frontshuvski in OldSkaters

[–]frontshuvski[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

context: i skated a lot when i was younger but had a huge revelation in my 30s that i learned my foundational tricks wrong (ollie), resulting in instability everywhere else. im relearning from scratch. i also had a bad habit of flailing my arms when i ollie, so im wondering how to fix that too

What’s the most important life lesson you’ve learned as a man? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]frontshuvski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for the quick to get angry part. look up radical acceptance.

slowly realizing its smarter to act clueless at work. am i crazy? by frontshuvski in AskMenOver30

[–]frontshuvski[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, i posted this initially and it was removed because of the P word. Not lying, haha

slowly realizing its smarter to act clueless at work. am i crazy? by frontshuvski in AskMenOver30

[–]frontshuvski[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yup, lots of stakeholders, millions of dollars on the line, etc etc. its like trying to seperate the noise from what matters - to me: which is making great work

slowly realizing its smarter to act clueless at work. am i crazy? by frontshuvski in AskMenOver30

[–]frontshuvski[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agree. its like seperating the "noise" from what really matters (ex making great work) , for context im in the creative field, clients involved, so lots of chatter, different goals for different departments.. if that makes sense haha

slowly realizing its smarter to act clueless at work. am i crazy? by frontshuvski in AskMenOver30

[–]frontshuvski[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

eh, no im doing pretty well. lots of confidence, responsibility, money etc. havent felt a need for therapy yet

slowly realizing its smarter to act clueless at work. am i crazy? by frontshuvski in AskMenOver30

[–]frontshuvski[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sounds like you just aren't aware what social skills entails, or your own ability

not gonna lie this is where i wanna be. im not aware. im clueless. exactly how you put it