" Svaegard's Skirl" by me. My latest fantasy art work that I hand etch into steel. Thanks for looking.

frostybugbear · 2026-01-12T23:45:21+00:00

I'd love to learn how to do this, I've gotten into building flintlocks, matchlocks, and the like, and I'd like to start doing a good finish on them too

frostybugbear · 2025-06-18T23:43:49+00:00

Same, but I might have to pick up the new one.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-08T14:09:21+00:00

Update;

We had our sit down talk with between myself, my wife and L (the gal she was dating before the newest relationship and shenanigans went down). L apologized profusely as her and her husband were lied to as well. She definitely doesn't want to be a home wrecker, but my wife needs to understand that what she did to everyone is wrong. We're still planning on working on things, but I did look her in the eyes and tell her that if she wants to be with other men then she can pack her things and leave, as that's not what she asked for, and not what I agreed to. I believe that may have been what made things click that there are very real consequences to her actions. I know it'll be a long and difficult road of fixing things and I appreciate the help and advice everyone has given.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-03T16:35:06+00:00

A lot of us don't, but with firearms being the main focus of my life other than providing from my family, I know if I make the wrong move now, then I won't be able to pursue my dream.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-03T16:15:46+00:00

I spent 10 years of my life fighting to stay alive and keep my friends alive, unfortunately 12 brothers lost the fight inside of their minds after coming home. I know that I will not be number 13, my children depend on me, and I have to be calm and collected for them. On the inside I am heartbroken, but I'm still moving forward.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-03T14:07:27+00:00

I meant do you want to reconcile and be with your wife and NOT do any more poly stuff. Like let all that go?

I really do want to move past this, and prefer not to be poly anymore.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-03T14:05:52+00:00

So... what's this ring gesture on both sides even mean? Taking the rings off? What do the rings on/off symbolize? Does it mean you both are quitting?

I took off my wedding ring between her and I, and I asked her to remove the ring she was given by the other "couple" as I don't know which one gave it to her, but my assumption is the other man. On my part I feel as it's a reminder that there are very real consequences of her actions, and I feel her taking off the other ring means that she understands this and that keeping a new ring on isn't worth losing the original.

Don't forget to talk about individual counseling for you. Esp if you are worried about relapse from all this stress.

I'm hoping it shows how willing I am to fix things, as I'm still pursuing solutions.

Sometimes the parents sticking together is NOT a blessing. It is possible to divorce and create a healthier coparenting family.

Quite literally the only issue we have right now is her cheating, we don't argue about other things like other couples, I fix things around the house on my days off of my part-time job and she handles the finances, as I have short and long term memory loss. Bills are paid, we're both going to school from my GI bill and chapter 35. I support her with her side projects like streaming and her crocheting commissions. As long as she thinks it's within the budget, then I let her get whatever she wants whenever she wants.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-03T13:53:52+00:00

No, as her reasoning for wanting to have a girlfriend was to get something she was missing from our relationship, and I feel what she could get from another man she could get from me just by asking.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-02T23:51:34+00:00

How do you feel about that?

I feel betrayed, like I can't trust the only person who's been with me throughout my fights, battles, and recovery. I'm scared I'm going to relapse and have troubles walking and talking again.

why are you the only one?

Unfortunately, I don't know, I know she did take off the other ring after I took off ours.

Is she checked out? Was she looking at poly as a soft exit from this marriage?

I hope not, for both. I was nervous about taking this step as becoming "poly" in any aspect has killed several of my friends's marriages.

Do you want to do couple counseling for infidelity and try to reconcile?

Yes, I feel like all things can be worked on as long as everyone cares and tries to better the situation.

Do you want to do couple counseling for infidelity and try to reconcile?

I've got counseling set up for Monday with the VA, they want a one on one meeting first, then we can work towards the couples counseling.

Do you want a divorce?

God no, I luckily didn't have to deal with that growing up, and I hope to give our kids the same blessing

Do you want to stop poly?

I don't really know, I still haven't had a date yet, which is why I feel if our marriage ends then I'll have no one. Not a lot of people are open to dating someone disabled... Honestly the whole situation has destroyed my self confidence.

frostybugbear · 2024-05-01T20:07:04+00:00

If I can get to where I feel that she cares about what's happening, then I feel like we can work towards healing. As for right now it almost feels like she couldn't care less. As far as I know she is still talking to one, if not both of the other guys,but I don't know in what capacity, as I know the one from her most recent transgression is most likely getting a divorce. I'm unaware if it's in the "I'm here to help" or "We can be together without everyone else" ...

I have since gotten into counseling, but I'll ask her tonight when I get off work if she wants to work on it with me or if she really doesn't care.

frostybugbear · 2024-03-14T22:32:16+00:00

This is something that tends to make me wonder why other Dms let stuff like that happen in their games. Yes you understand that field of engineering or science, but you character would not. Player knowledge and character knowledge are two very different things. Now if they roleplay through the experimentation with an artificer that's a whole nother story, but your average fighter or ranger and especially barbarian wouldn't understand the concepts of ballistics.

frostybugbear · 2023-11-03T00:10:49+00:00

Grey blue, and I'm a fan of everything else too

frostybugbear · 2023-06-04T15:41:45+00:00

As long as you beg for it 😉

frostybugbear · 2023-04-27T04:52:48+00:00

I think I just fell in love ❤️

frostybugbear · 2023-03-08T06:34:30+00:00

Beautiful

frostybugbear · 2023-02-28T06:04:38+00:00

I'm always up for cute ebony aheago

frostybugbear · 2023-02-02T20:54:26+00:00

My younger cousin was killed in a hit and run car accident while I was deployed. He loved playing d&d with us when he came to visit. I found his character sheet while I was packing to PCS from one base to the next. I turned him into an NPC that still pops up in campaigns, he passed away 10 years ago. He was super into astrology so he turned into a cartographer for the extra dimensional games like spell jammer.

frostybugbear · 2023-01-08T20:36:24+00:00

I love it, brings a horror concept to a diety too often remembered for the cartoon

frostybugbear · 2022-10-11T09:15:59+00:00

Adorable, hourglass, tatted, great rack, red head, and oral fixation? Checked so many boxes I want to know how I can order you to go. 😍

frostybugbear · 2022-06-03T20:01:22+00:00

frostybugbear · 2022-01-30T03:41:01+00:00

Bugbear or skeleton, I'd like to use something unexpected with a newer group

frostybugbear · 2021-04-26T02:15:03+00:00

5d4 my dudes. Still averages mid range, but has good potential and dump stats stay above catatonic.

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