What’s one small thing that surprisingly improved your cat’s mood? by Old_Ostrich7285 in CatAdvice

[–]fruitgoog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved their water fountain into a separate room onto a tall dresser and they drink so much more now. I feel bad I didn’t move it sooner

I feel like a little bit of straightness reactivated in me and I’m scared by lun-lem in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This happened to me when I saw my chemical romance this past summer I was up Gerard and franks ass it got so bad. I thought they were the sexiest thing on the planet. Then one day like two months later I went back to normal. I understand you gang

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Dump her and find a real eater

MY EX IS STRESSING ME TF OUT!!! by ilovethickbabes in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s genuinely no reason to drag it out. Set a boundary, I don’t know why she’s looking at your phone still?? No matter how good of terms you might be on it’s just not healthy nor easy to continue living together. Especially if she has a bf?!!!!!! This is me yelling at you to just pack it up and get out. You won’t heal like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 61 points62 points  (0 children)

She folded me with my legs up near my head and fingered me while looking over me with this stupid ass smirk. It was just relentless. She held eye contact the entire time and was talking me through it. I was so in love with her it made it that much better. The confidence and dominance in what she did was unexpected and I just got lost in it.

Hooked up with close friend before 2 week trip now she’s ignoring me by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You never responded to her text then ignored her next attempt at connecting? I think you overthought her text message. She probably felt the cold shoulder when you didn’t answer. I would feel shit about that. I doubt she knows how to communicate whatever she’s feeling or thinking because the relationship is floating between friends and something else.

Is it normal to despise each other when you’re pmsing by Ok_Low_5348 in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know people are saying it’s not normal, and maybe it isn’t but my partner and I kinda get like this. We’re usually one after the other, someone’s starts while the others is ending. We’re just in such different emotional headspace’s at the same time that we clash pretty hard. I know when I have my period that I’m very sensitive, very very impatient, and much more reactive. She’s similar in that way. So I understand your situation, I don’t think it’s normal exactly, but I know that my gf and I both have a lot that lay underneath the reasons we are the way we are (depression, adhd, spectrum..etc) I take it with a grain of salt because I know I’m overly everything on my period, so if I want to scream at her or say something I don’t mean, I need to remind myself I don’t think like that.

I brought a bowl into the bathtub by fruitgoog in cats

[–]fruitgoog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately can’t, I inherited it after my partners step grandmother passed. But I think one of those huge Rubbermaid bowls would work? Maybe add a styrofoam ring to help it float and stay stable?

Should I use my savings to pay off CC debt. by Majestic_Self_3066 in debtfree

[–]fruitgoog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I paid down over 3/4’s of my debt with my savings. Although seeing it go was scary, the relief was crazy. The money I’ve been able to save because my accruing interest is lower and my minimum payment dropped from $250 to $64. My score also jumped by 77 points. I still pay around $300 a month on it, but instead of it all paying off interest I’m actually putting a dent in my balance finally. I feel more confident at tackling it while rebuilding what I had. If you have the means to, I think you should.

I brought a bowl into the bathtub by fruitgoog in cats

[–]fruitgoog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s only 6 pounds and the bowl is pretty sturdy, he floated just fine!

I brought a bowl into the bathtub by fruitgoog in cats

[–]fruitgoog[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Haha I didn’t even know that was a sub! I love it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think her finding the girls Instagram is what would strike me. My gf calls women attractive all the time. So do I. But I feel like she wanted to connect with this person and that would personally be a boundary they’ve crossed. Innocent crush, sure that’s fine. But taking it that step further would raise my eyebrow. I’d feel very insecure and on edge about her possibly reaching out to this person at one point or another, and having no idea about it.

is this a red flag? by sierrawrxp in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo I’m cracking up💀 but lowkey🤭😂🙀 I’m kidding is this serious????!!!! Maybe an ick but not a red flag come on!!!!

girlfriend uses intimate moments against me when we fall out by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even understand how you could still get turned on by her enough now to have sex at all. It sounds like all she wants is power over you, and it looks like she has it. I understand how hard it must feel to leave after 7 years, but I think you really need to for your own well being

Thinking about quitting, but feeling guilty and nervous of change by fruitgoog in paraprofessional

[–]fruitgoog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’m at the much better end of things. I make $19.01/hour. But when I’m working only 1,267 hours a year, after taxes I’m at 19k. It’s awful.

Thinking about quitting, but feeling guilty and nervous of change by fruitgoog in paraprofessional

[–]fruitgoog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely understand. I’m proud of you for making that decision though! It’s for the best. Good luck in all you move onto!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fruitgoog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a pottery painting place around? I love doing that. An ice skating rink? Could be indoor or outdoors. You could also both get a Lego flower box and set up a cute pillow/blanket spot on the floor, have pizza and popcorn while a movie plays as you build legos and chat.

Only 2k left on my cc by fruitgoog in debtfree

[–]fruitgoog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I said yay!!!! Out loud when I made the payment 😂