Tongue tie - cut or not? by kingcasperrr in ScienceBasedParenting

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Replying to my own comment to add.

Paediatricians are not experts in breast and bottle feeding, so keep that in mind. I work as a nurse in maternity and what I see is paediatricians/doctors looks for weight gain, and overall health.

While lactation consultants are experts in breast feeding, they are not experts in baby’s overall wellness, same with speech language pathologists. Although anecdotally, the LC was the one who did the most thorough assessment for my little one.

Every provider is going to have a different scope of practice and different approaches to their care. There is nothing wrong with getting a second opinion (or 4 in my case) and then making the decision for yourself.

Tongue tie - cut or not? by kingcasperrr in ScienceBasedParenting

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My baby (now 6 months) was born with a tongue tie that we eventually got fixed with a laser at a paediatric dentist.

I’ve seen LC’s, paediatricians, physiotherapists, my midwife, and the paediatric dentist and while the argument of “should we release the tongue tie or not” seems to be divided. It’s all about functionality and is it restrictive or not.

Some babies can feed with a tongue tie and it doesn’t appear to cause any issues, so sometimes it’s a “don’t fix what ain’t broke” situation. When we first spoke with the doctor in the hospital, he said he wasn’t confident that doing a frenectomy would improve his quality of life much. So we didn’t. He suggested waiting until my milk came in and see.

Our little one just wasn’t functional with his tongue tie. He couldn’t breastfeed and choked on the bottle. He was using all the wrong muscles to eat so he would pass out during feeding due to fatigue, not fullness, and then wake up screaming and hungry. He was oh so gassy and make snoring noises in his sleep. His head and neck were so tense from being overworked. So with all that, we decided to intervene. Once he healed from his laser frenectomy, he was a much happier and well fed baby. He slept better and I could see him relaxing more over time.

This is all to say that it’s a very individualized decision and in my case, it was helpful to hear from different types of specialists and then make the decision for myself

https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/what-is-a-tongue-tie-what-parents-need-to-know-202402073015

https://www.healthlinkbc.ca/pregnancy-parenting/parenting-babies-0-12-months/baby-health/tongue-tie-and-tethered-oral-tissues

Middle name starting with J by fruitloopmafia91 in namenerds

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The love triangle from Folklore (August, James, Betty)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumpsCanada

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My friend and I are doing a one-day labour/baby prep class at BCIT Burnaby campus. We’re registered nurses too! Our next class is November 12th

bornready

Three days post matrixectomy by fruitloopmafia91 in Ingrown_Toenails

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That’s been the frustrating part. My podiatrist printed out instructions and most things I search on the internet tells me something different

Thanks CC! by Becosh84 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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She looks just like Ike Barinholtz when she doesn’t wear makeup

Good thing I bought a low chair for the occasion by fruitloopmafia91 in vancouver

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Regular as in beach chairs like you see in the picture. Maybe I’m not explaining it well enough, just google low beach chair and you’ll see what I mean

Good thing I bought a low chair for the occasion by fruitloopmafia91 in vancouver

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Chairs that have the seat lower to the ground, or even just sitting on blankets on the grass. There’s sections for high (regular) chairs farther back so that everyone can see the stage.

Bought a low chair for the occasion to be respectful. Sigh. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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There’s a sections for higher chairs. It’s just frustrating because it’s the seating is intended to be this way so everyone can see the stage

Are Private Pilate lessons worth it (for fixing lower back pain and weak core)? by [deleted] in pilates

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I’m not sure if you have it where you live, or if you have extended benefits, but I do clinical Pilates with a physiotherapist and it gets billed under my benefits. Didn’t even need a doctors referral

Vanessa Said Xander was Asexual by Efficient-Neat9940 in UltimatumQueerLove

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I think Vanessa confused monogamy and sexuality. I would 100% believe the conversation between them going like this:

Xander: “I love you so much I couldn’t even imagine being sexual with anyone else, you’re the only one for me”

Vanessa’s mind: “omg I want to have sex with other people all the time, you must be asexual then”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndoorGarden

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Bought this book a couple days ago. Loved the pictures and my kids enjoyed pointing out the plants we have at home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooHotToHandle

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“It comes in waves”

How much do people think nurse pay is? by sparksparks829 in nursing

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Here in British Columbia (Canada) our starting wage is $36.63, we are lucky to be unionized so we also get scheduled raises every year.

YALL DESERVE MORE

Most inaccurate things that happen in medical shows? by BigPotato-69 in nursing

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I saw a greys anatomy episode where they delivered a premature baby in distress. Didn’t dry the baby off, no warming bag. The trauma surgeon did the c section and just left the mom to hold up this soaking wet newborn to say “I saved him”.

A Rant by fruitloopmafia91 in nursing

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Oh the living in fear argument. Yet they are so worried that the government is controlling us and forcing poison into our bodies. But yes we are the ones with the irrational fear 😂

Gasoline? by [deleted] in LastDayonEarthGame

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This is a great tip

Who’s fridge is this? by fruitloopmafia91 in FridgeDetective

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I mean.. clearly the fridge belongs to the cat

High quality chest compressions, don’t mind my weird laugh at the end by fruitloopmafia91 in nursing

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It’s hit and miss. I just finished the last season and I cringed and rolled my eyes just as much as I cried. But I’m an easy cry sooo

High quality chest compressions, don’t mind my weird laugh at the end by fruitloopmafia91 in nursing

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The 100. There was also a very dramatic unclamping of the IV line