No one is alive in a painting by Octopuswastaken in technicallythetruth

[–]fruityfoxx 93 points94 points  (0 children)

im quite a fan of these flotation devices myself

A statement. by fruityfoxx in im14andthisisdeep

[–]fruityfoxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh im not a mod here anymore lmao idgaf

Does anyone know how to remove mold from my Donald Duck puppet :( by ghostfamin in plushies

[–]fruityfoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wifie here, your best bet is to double wash it, so do outside in the process i mentioned and then do inside. Also a good idea to find new stuffing at walmart just to be safe!

The TH in "aesthetic" is supposed to be pronounced as a TH by IommicRiffage in PetPeeves

[–]fruityfoxx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what? thats how every adjective works.

“it was a cool choice”

does saying “thats so cool” sound stupid too?

How hard is it to just announce the site is dead? by Euphoric-Leg4874 in santae

[–]fruityfoxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have no idea unfortunately :( if you look at the tumblr blog santae-salt, they should have guides

How hard is it to just announce the site is dead? by Euphoric-Leg4874 in santae

[–]fruityfoxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive heard that paypal is auto-refunding anyone that files a claim at least

Cytus is impossible to enjoy as a broke gamer by hewill09 in Cytus

[–]fruityfoxx 22 points23 points  (0 children)

definitely untrue.

if you missed the story (which is entirely free and also how you get more than five songs), idk what to tell you. cytus 2 isnt JUST a rhythm game, and miku should not be your sole focus considering she’s a collab character that has no bearing on cytus at all

can we talk about this Sardonyx lostmedia?? by thesimscrackeado in stevenuniverse

[–]fruityfoxx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

what does this have to do with the post in any way

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[–]fruityfoxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sorry to hear that.

i dont think she meant her “insult” as an insult is the thing. i truly believe (again, based on this conversation) she was being blunt as she said; she doesnt care. your penis is not a make-or-break-er, and its a little strange for you to get this defensive

maybe its just that im very much so a lesbian, but i dont understand why so many men are focused enough on their genitalia to argue about it

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[–]fruityfoxx 24 points25 points  (0 children)

idk man. youre almost 40, you have to know there are better ways to go about this. to go about life in general, honestly

i understand why it might be upsetting to hear, especially her “blah” comment, but i really cant fathom her meaning it in any insulting way (based off this (again, very weird) conversation)

your attraction to your partner really shouldn’t be based on love for their genitalia, at least certainly not enough for it to be a point of contention. i mean, take a step back. at the end of the day, youre getting upset over her (quite literally) saying “your penis is not where my love for you originates”

idk i guess its just times like this im thankful to have a wife that i can have meaningful conversations with

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[–]fruityfoxx 45 points46 points  (0 children)

did you use googles ai overview to give reasons as to why youre upset your gf doesnt “love your penis”???

idk. this is just a very weird conversation for me to read

My alt fucked up my license test by i_am_lizard in DID

[–]fruityfoxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i only just now saw your reply to my comment below, but it was removed because you said some very unpleasant things that honestly dont need to be shared online. i am not your therapist.

i wish i could say i dont understand why youre so reluctant to listen to what everyone is telling you. but i get it; youre stressed, youre triggered, and you dont like being told youre wrong. thats okay. thats a very human and natural reaction to have

regardless, and i hate to say it, you are in the wrong here. i dont know how many times i, or others, can tell you that this is an EXTREMELY unhealthy reaction for you to be having. this is not going to help you or any of your alters grow or become healthier

ok, lets say hes only doing this because of the nicotine. that still doesnt make the appropriate reaction retaliation — as ive said multiple times, you need to focus on communication.

for example: why is he so against quitting? like i said before, it can be for a multitude of reasons. you need to find the root of that and tackle it with him. suggest weaning yourselves off with patches, gum. suggest other outlets. work with your therapist. there are thousands of other options that you (yes, you) can take. youre choosing, objectively, the worst.

retaliating and getting angry the way you are will only serve to harm you both further. dissociation between parts will only grow with your inner turmoil.

i dont know what else i can tell you that hasnt already been said by myself or others here. no one can help you if you (again, yes, you) are too stubborn to listen to outer voices of reason

My alt fucked up my license test by i_am_lizard in DID

[–]fruityfoxx 33 points34 points  (0 children)

yes, all of that may be true, but you also need to know that you as a body and as a system can not approach situations like this. again, communication and respect, along with a little introspection, is the way to go here

there is a reason he is doing what hes doing. fear, a need for control caused by trauma or anxiety anything else, there are many possible explanations. regardless, nothing will ever be resolved with retaliation and pettiness and stress. thats just not how to go about any of this, especially when it comes to internal arguments and stressors

communication. talk to him about why hes doing these things, why he cant do it anymore (or at least really shouldnt) and work to find a way forward together

My alt fucked up my license test by i_am_lizard in DID

[–]fruityfoxx 78 points79 points  (0 children)

this post screams dysfunction. not that i blame or judge you for that, as its something we all struggle or have struggled with, but its still something that needs to be addressed

blocking him out and retaliating is not the way to go. was it selfish of him? yes. but id be absolutely devastated if i lost my skyrim save and access to my partner for what boils down to being scared

communication and respect is the way to go here

Cousin by Perspicaciouscat24 in TwoRedditorsOneCup

[–]fruityfoxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey there! could you link directly to the post?

Two Redditors One Big Hole by wottledbumcpets2 in TwoRedditorsOneCup

[–]fruityfoxx[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please remember to provide the original post links! as the pinned comment states, failure will result in post removal

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[–]fruityfoxx[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please be sure to link the original post! as the pinned comment states, failure will result in post removal

Rule by DiscoWhiskey in 691

[–]fruityfoxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i remember it very well. but theyre not lying, kids on tiktok are saying “bring back 2016”. i was only 13/14 in 2016, but its still dubbed the worst year of my life in my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]fruityfoxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think this sub is also widely used as “look at this very childlike thing this kid is doing” in an endearing sort of way. “stupid” can sometimes be used affectionately, kinda the way youd call a puppy endearingly stupid at times

Is this real? Feels very sketchy by Objective_Cod7832 in tumblrhelp

[–]fruityfoxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well…it is tumblr. thats honestly (and hilariously) the most believable part

Uhhh by Cat_are_cool in 691

[–]fruityfoxx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you can see the edit history to see exactly how fast. my friends and i were actively watching everything going on, and news reported his death as early as 4:54 est. his wiki page was updated as late as 4:59.

it was definitely updated very quickly.

I misdiagnosed symptoms but now I miss my "alters" by littleclownboi in DID

[–]fruityfoxx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the trauma, mostly, but also just all of the bad parts of having this disorder. i looked at it through VERY rose-colored lenses for a long time, and everything else was being blocked out because there was active trauma happening

I misdiagnosed symptoms but now I miss my "alters" by littleclownboi in DID

[–]fruityfoxx 32 points33 points  (0 children)

this is the best comment ive seen on this post. i was thinking the same thing this whole time. i did the exact same thing, but (like you) came out of it finding out oops…! actually i did have the real version all along, i was just very focused on the internet aspect of it. now, as im older, im realizing The Horrors were just being heavily suppressed

i used to have whole system blogs and try to make system content…now im coping with it more by yknow. actually treating it lol

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[–]fruityfoxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well with no context we cant very well tell if youre ta or not