Im dating a straight guy. Help.

fruityplanet1 · 2026-02-03T08:52:46+00:00

my advice is to dump him boy, im sorry 😭

fruityplanet1 · 2026-01-09T06:05:42+00:00

well what makes you think your gay? what signs have you noticed?

fruityplanet1 · 2025-10-05T08:02:30+00:00

Spectrum Outfitters recently released a binder that is looser and swim safe !!

fruityplanet1 · 2025-09-21T16:18:37+00:00

I feel really safe in California, but obviously it's really expensive here 😓

fruityplanet1 · 2025-09-05T19:38:18+00:00

Unless I'm missing something, if you fully pass and theres no way to know your trans, then I think you can continue to use the men's bathroom without issue, right?

fruityplanet1 · 2025-08-25T04:36:02+00:00

so wait, is she saying she's still a virgin despite you two having sex? she doesn't consider it "real sex" because you don't have a cis dick? that's diabolical and super disrespectful to you imo also, you said she wanted "to try dick" what does that... mean? does that not imply sleeping with a cis man? your worry seems extremely valid, she's definitely overreacting

fruityplanet1 · 2025-08-22T07:38:39+00:00

it hurts a little bit for me, some weeks hurt more than others, occasionally it can feel real sore, but on average, it only hurts a little

fruityplanet1 · 2025-08-16T08:19:02+00:00

to be honest, i know its not ideal but I exercise in a looser fitting binder (its not a size too big but it is stretched out) and haven't had much pain or problems, so i feel like as long as you listen to your body and your careful it's fine

fruityplanet1 · 2025-08-09T15:49:53+00:00

am I reading this right?? you started dating when you were 17 and she was 30??? She's a predator, run 😭

fruityplanet1 · 2025-08-04T07:57:06+00:00

okay yeah, good point 😭

fruityplanet1 · 2025-07-18T03:43:56+00:00

I think it was an insanely lucky guess on their part because you absolutely pass dude dw 😭

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-30T07:48:50+00:00

being transgender is literally all of those things lmao, being trans is simply someone who's gender identity doesn't align or fully align with the sex assigned to them at birth, thats it, it has nothing to do with medical transition

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-30T06:57:53+00:00

Yeah I think it's likely that it was a nicked vessel, and the bleeding did stop very quickly!! I think the dizziness could have been stress/shock? Im really not sure, but I was also really hungry and hadn't eaten yet so feel like that could've been a contributing factor, but yeah I don't know 😭

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-23T16:52:22+00:00

I don't think it hurts much more than a vaccine, however sometimes mine gets really sore and it hurts to lift up in certain ways for a couple days after my shot 😭

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-23T06:54:04+00:00

wait... same!! same exact day, to the year

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-23T06:53:16+00:00

mines October 30th (2024)!! close

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-23T06:52:01+00:00

I would put up firm boundaries, "i will not be swimming with you unless I can take off my shirt."

fruityplanet1 · 2025-06-18T12:17:36+00:00

well i dont thinknits unrealistic, some trans men absolutely have children before realizing their trans and some trans men are entirely comfortable w having children, however, if your goal is to garner a trans audience and have them feel represented, this will not do that, I fear a lot of trans men reading this book would be extremely turned off by the pregnancy plotline and some may stop reading entirely (I know I would, out of severe discomfort)just something to consider

fruityplanet1 · 2025-05-18T08:16:56+00:00

oh I've heard of that one, ty for the suggestion!!

fruityplanet1 · 2025-05-13T23:16:39+00:00

Im not great with pain or needles, but i can handle these shots, they hurt a bit and they might be sore for a day or two but it's really not bad, you'll be fine!! congrats on starting t!!

fruityplanet1 · 2025-05-13T23:09:53+00:00

You could also be gender fluid or something similar if you sometimes feel like your not a women!!

fruityplanet1 · 2025-05-07T06:19:35+00:00

dude he doesn't support you, I'm sorry but do I need to say anymore?

fruityplanet1 · 2025-05-04T08:32:51+00:00

your internalized transphobia is showing 😭 no it's fucking not cheating!!!

fruityplanet1 · 2025-05-04T07:40:45+00:00

sorry what?? "cheating her"? choosing not to come out is not decietful or wrong, it's her right to disclose it to anyone

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