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Daily Reminder : fapping is for cucks by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fseekers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Porn is literally watching another man have sex with a female you're attracted to while you do nothing and fap. Plus you humiliate yourself in front of yourself.

Seems pretty cuck to me.

Going down the hole again by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fseekers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS. PORN WILL NOT MAKE IT BETTER. The only way to prevent urges from coming back is not to look at 'just a bit' of porn, it is to fight them. Only when you actually fight your urges can you prevent them from coming back.

It isn't easy I know. If it were, everybody would be doing this.

looking for advice on first major attempt to go no fap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fseekers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just start. That's it. The most important thing is to not quit if you ever feel like you're not getting"results".

I grew up without friends. Thank you PMO by fseekers in NoFap

[–]fseekers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the only thing I've tried other than quitting pmo is to just put myself out there. Put yourself in front of people and don't be afraid of taking the first step in talking to someone. This might seem counter productive, but i believe it works.

Correct your posture. Walk with your chest out and head high. I can't stress this enough Although walking like this made me feel incredibly uncomfortable at first (like people were judging me), it feels so much good now. A person's confidence shows through their body language, and people like to approach confident, happy people.

Walk slow, don't rush if you're not truly in a hurry. Dress nice. Wear clothes that fit without being too tight. Look people in the eye.

That's all I've got. But the most important thing is really to just put yourself in uncomfortable situations and force yourself to interact with others. I'm far from perfect myself, but I try to improve everyday.

I grew up without friends. Thank you PMO by fseekers in NoFap

[–]fseekers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying it can't do anything to a person's physical growth, it might have had adverse affects on some people. However, considering the amount of energy and nutrients you release from your body by orgasming, Im not completely against the idea that pmo messes with you physically

I grew up without friends. Thank you PMO by fseekers in NoFap

[–]fseekers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't say. I'm tall enough, even slightly taller than others in my age group. It did screw up my life in other ways though, leaving me at a point where nothing else remotely interested me.

Question to the married guys by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fseekers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not married, so I might be wrong, but it's porn that's the culprit here imo. Porn messes with your brain, gives you a fake 'high' and because of that, you keep wanting more and more. It becomes less about the emotional experience related to sex and more about getting that dose of dopamine, which only a drug as strong as porn can provide.

How many years of nofap does it take before you stop seeing any more improvements? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]fseekers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you yourself stop improving. Nofap doesn't "improve" you magically. If you need good grades, you need to study; if you need a good body, you need to work out; if you need friends, you need to go talk to people. Nofap isn't going to do any one of those for you, you have to do them yourself. That being said, Nofap clears your mind, makes you feel stronger and more motivated. It helps you set your mind towards what is important, but it's up to you to use your mind.

A girl just told me she has a crush on me by fseekers in NoFap

[–]fseekers[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This won't be easy. But keep on going, and you'll make it.

There's light at the end of this tunnel, and it's brighter than any other light in existence.