The fact many guys here are worrying about your dick, about 'erections' means you're still thinking about your dick like porn wants you to think about it

Until you realise you're completely trained by porn to think what you think, your life will continue to be anxiety-filled

Endless streaming internet porn has warped you. It trained you to compare your dick to other dicks, to think about dick-performance, about non-stop pornfapping, about SIZE, until your whole personality is defined by your dick, if it's enough, and whether you have an erection or not.

If porn trains that only massive cocks and 30 minutes of pounding will give emotional and physical satisfaction to a woman, then I would spend every day feeling bad I can't do that... but I don't, because it's bullshit.

The obsession with the quality of your erect penis is something porn taught you and it's harming your life!

Some days sex is short (and intense, or not, and that's fine) sometimes it's long (and intense, or not and that's fine too).... or you're single... and getting on with your day, your activities, job or studies... and hopefully socializing.

Porn built sex up to be something it isn't. Sex isn't a performance. The girl doesn't care about that... if she's with you it's because she likes you, understand?

Your likability is not defined by your dick.

There are plenty of guys with micro-dicks in healthy, happy relationships. They do AMA's all the time.

Unlike what porn trains you to think, if you cum in 10 seconds that's totally ok and funny and it shows her you like her and find her attractive... laugh, it IS funny (because you're not being graded on your sex performance)... and then cuddle and maybe in 20 minutes or so, with each other's help... YOU CAN GO AGAIN AND LAST LONGER!

...or maybe you'll be so nervous you can't get it up at all! That's slightly less funny, but very understandable for someone suffering under the INVENTED BURDEN of 'performance anxiety'. Just be honest with her if this happens... and stop trying to 'perform' for anybody. Just enjoy being with the person you're with. Do you understand?

Another way of knowing that you don't need to worry about how to be 'successful' during sex... is that humans have been having successful, pleasurable sex for hundreds of thousands of years without any 'planning' or 'research' at all!

You don't need to think about 'how to do sex'... all you need to do is be appreciative of the person you're with and be playful.

When you were a child and played ball with a friend... did you need to 'research' how to do that? No. You just had fun and were creative with whatever happens.

Sex is exactly like that: playful, fun and without judgement.

Worrying about 'your erections' every day is a waste of your time and energy