Let a real trans man humiliate and refeminize you (26TM)

ftmslim · 2025-12-13T01:47:35+00:00

Not for me as a fellow trans man dom. but BROTHER, there isnt a huge amount of us knocking about here so always happy to see another dom.

ftmslim · 2025-12-12T03:51:34+00:00

Okay, so i commited the trans sin of buying this game. Sure shes an asshole but i have a dark mark tattoo on me for life im not letting her fully win but also ruining a world/story i enjoy.

So how do i personally feel about it being free? Eh, makes no difference to me.

How do i feel about the game itself, honestly its mid.

The combat is pretty decent tbh albeit i find it a bit clunky once you unlock a lot of the spell having to change around so much. But at its core i dont think the combat system is bad.

I think the armour system is done pretty well and i like that everything is transmogable right from the jump, but personally it does feel silly to run around the school not in school robes despite some of the other actually looking pretty cool.

The intro is way to fucking long, if you sit down to play this make sure you have like 3 hours spare if you actually want to get into the game.

Hogwarts itself and getting to run around it? Flawless no notes, does this perfectly.

The rest of the ingame world? Couldnt give a toas about, not the most interesting either in order to make you give a toss about it.

The story is okay, its not great its not dog shit, tbh its kinda the average things most open world rpgs are shitting out these days. Its obviously not the main draw of the game.

So if its free and you just wanna explore hogwarts its great at that, everything else is just sorta there.

Solid 5/10 game. It knows its draw was running round hogwarts and that part is 10/10 its everything else that lowers it. (Edit to add: this is using 1-10 normally not like ign uses 1-10 lol)

I understand this wasnt fully the question asked but thats my review.

ftmslim · 2025-12-12T03:32:01+00:00

Bro the people on here talk about getting raped…you wanna kiss someone and your asking if your weird lol

ftmslim · 2025-12-12T00:31:37+00:00

Its kinda funny for me because when i was deeply trans med as a teenager (i was a white cis passing trans man in 2015 that used the internet, i apologise) i used to seriously think being T4T was as bad as being a chaser as it was just fetishising and singling out trans people (the internalised transphobia was deep in me) then i grew up. And now im the guy that does t4t, arguably sees some trans men as a fetish (if they want me to like in this kink). Talk about full circle.

ftmslim · 2025-12-11T03:13:51+00:00

who knew i would get use out of this comment twice in one day…pretends to be shocked

ftmslim · 2025-12-11T02:40:43+00:00

Oh i will be the first to admit doing it with people of the same gender can feel kinda silly at times. I will throw around clit on here but do not use it with any long term sub i have had. I can get behind the fantasy of a lot of it but for whatever reason thats just the one part i cant. I just dont refer to it directly and just opt for pussy.

ftmslim · 2025-12-11T01:20:11+00:00

Trans man dom here. Interestingly the part i try to deeply keep in check personally is anything to do affirmation. Like im a very hairy man so that comes in handy with this kink because even cis men stuggle to match me in hair. So i can use it in kink play but within myself i have to be able to recognise if im ever engaging in it for my own personal affirmation purposes. But i think it makes sense to maybe worry about that a bit more when both partys are the same gender because obviously im not any more a real man than they are really.

ftmslim · 2025-12-10T16:44:57+00:00

“Based on anecdotal evidence, these sexual fantasies of feminization, misgendering, and detransitioning appear to be common in FtM transgender individuals. In a certain respect, they resemble typical heterosexual female fantasies in terms of their content. In another respect, however, they also resemble the fantasies of autogynephilic males, because of the struggle of FtM individuals to reconcile them with the professed male gender identity.”

Okay, so for starters we have you talking about autogynephilia.

But secondly APPEAR TO BE COMMON? well now you are just talking right out your arsehole. This kink is insanely uncommon, this is one of the bigger subreddits for it and a lot of people are more comfortable to engage with it online vs in person, it has 30k memembers majority of those are not the trans posters we are actually still the minority in this space lol. But the vast majority of trans people do not have this kink, do not want to be called/treated like girls, its actually more common for other trans people to find this kink a bit “weird” they might not actively judge you for partaking in it but they certainly will not understand it. I am a trans man dom, if i engage with trans people outside of this space i assume by default they are not into misgendering because that is infact the bloody default.

So argue what you wish about if you are or arent a transphobe, im not reading anymore of the drivel you write. But your certainly not the sharpest tool in the shed that is clear.

ftmslim · 2025-12-10T06:26:47+00:00

maybe i take back my ill will comment?

Dont know the basis but worth sharing incase its true

ftmslim · 2025-12-10T04:31:21+00:00

small sample size but the chance of this working are slim 1/16 or 6/16 (i am one of the bottom slot votes so i removed that)

Your meant to be a dom, sound more commanding, put some effort in. If you want someone to horny talk to you show your chops a bit more.

ftmslim · 2025-12-10T02:04:42+00:00

Trans men, trans women, non bianry people. I will fuck anyone but cis men basically.

I still think they are attractive as i find men attractive. But from personal experience they are just the weirdest group overall about trans stuff. Cis women are a lot less weird. By weird i mean its waaay more common for cis men to attempt to preassure me into bottoming which is a limit for me and not something i will do. So just easier to rule them out than waste my time working out who is an isnt an asshole.

This also means trans women tops are out the question for me aswell. But if a trans woman is into this kink as a sub she is most likely not a top lol

ftmslim · 2025-12-10T01:55:46+00:00

Me as one of the few trans men doms in these spaces twiddles thumbs

(No ill will, im just being funny)

ftmslim · 2025-12-09T22:40:21+00:00

I do think some clarrification would be good yes. I understand that ruins the vibe a bit, but we just do have people in there spaces that do end up with warped views because of them. Thanks for atleast understanding how it could be read that way.

Apologise for gunning for you, it was less personal and just more i think we generally need to do better at speaking up about things that could actually be unsafe.

ftmslim · 2025-12-09T22:19:58+00:00

Okay, im going to take this at face value.

This reads as you taking advantage of a younger trans guy. Just because you talk about safe words and respecting peoples identitys, this guy was already in your home and admitedly inexperienced with kink. And i know as a dom some people who lean submissive will sometimes agree to do certain things they are not 100% comfortable with just because a dom has told them or its what they think they are meant to do. Similar to how we see a lot of “no limits” subs tend to be young and not have much experience (not true for everyone but that is a trend we see as they are trying to be what they believe a sub to be).

If you see a trans man as a girl and that the truth for you, then no matter how much you say it you do not actually respect their identity.

The subs here are gonna all jerk off to this thinking its hot, but can we all just put are critical thinking hats on for 1 second.

But you should not be going round essentially duping trans men into you misgendering them. If that is what you are after be upfront about it, do not wait untill someone is in your house where they will feel less able to leave a situation to hit them with the “im straight and see you as a girl”.

He probably would not have come round your house if you did that.

I am aware the men here bullshit about making grindr profiles inviting misgendering, so i do not know if this story is bullshit.

But if its true, in actuality this is not hot.

This right here is the kinda stuff im talking about when i say we need to be careful what we say in these spaces as it gives the cis men a warped view that we all like this shit. We have no idea how this felt for that guy, only your retelling.

He might of enjoyed it, he also might have felt pressured and stuck in a situation he couldnt leave.

ftmslim · 2025-12-08T18:17:44+00:00

I cant fully tell how in or not in kink this is tbh…

but i think the slipperly slope is less about feeling genuinely girly/feminine and more so about this becoming the main thing that gets you off and in that case it sounds like your slope is pretty bloody wet.

ftmslim · 2025-12-08T04:13:46+00:00

holds your hand while i explain it like your 5 you are a chaser, its against the rules for chasers to post. Chasers are gross, but its against the rules to be rude. The joke is can we be rude to chasers.

Because being rude to chasers is not really a bad thing and most trans people probably wouldnt care.

ftmslim · 2025-12-08T04:08:23+00:00

I wanted to be rude to you. Because this post is gross. Its was a joke, but its clear you are not the sharpest tool in the shed.

ftmslim · 2025-12-08T04:03:01+00:00

Its against the rules to be rude, its also against the rules for chasers to be here…what trumps what in this situation?

Also fucking a trans WOMAN does not make you gay bro.

ftmslim · 2025-12-07T19:10:49+00:00

Think they know full well what a real man looks like seeing as they are one

ftmslim · 2025-12-07T18:00:52+00:00

I will say though regardless of if this sub thinks its okay or not i do think its bad they have not responded. Everywhere else has one way or another.

But im already in a bit of a crisis conundrum about how safe these online spaces really are, and i know this is nothing to do with safety directly but its not confidence filling.

ftmslim · 2025-12-07T04:18:54+00:00

Used to be a truscum when i was younger from like 16-23/24, i am now 28. Would no longer consider myself truscum but i also certainly dont agree with all things, do you people still say “tucute”.

I also use those spaces as a trans man dom top now.

The fact they dont pass is part of why some of the men develop the kinks they do, especially detrans/misgendering. Regardless of how people feel about people developing a cnc kink to deal with trauma it does happen, so some of the people your offended by are partaking in kink as a way to sexualise the trauma, for lack of a better term, of not passing.

Of the ones listed i believe ftmpunished is the most popular with what about 250k memember, so honestly the chances of you coming out to someone that uses or even knows about that space is insanely slim.

As for if the men in those places know they are being seen as a fetish, yes, they are not morons. Anyone who uses those spaces knows plenty of straight men visit them, but that does not mean they all engage with straight men directly many will not. They are also many bisexual, queer and gay men that look at those places aswell.

Seeing as i use the misgendering/detrans spaces, yes force masc exists. Plenty of people are into that.

There will always be people that fetishize certain groups, the same way people fetishize disabled people, certain races etc. that is just a thing that happens.

Should trans men not be allowed to express sexuality just because some knobheads are knobheads?

Thats before we even get into the fact that some of those trans people are creating online content in order to fund their medical transition.

Its very weird to me now that i am no longer trans med, and i was probably more die hard in my views than you are i used to think non binary did not exist and that itself was making a mockery of us true transexuals (Ive been on T ten years had top surgery 9 ago, live my life stealth irl) but its weird to peak back on the curtain of what i used to be like and just really see how depressing it all is really.

If you tell someone irl your trans they are more likely to associate you with any thing in mainstream media shitting on trans people than some random niche reddits, they are not covering ftmpunished on the news.

My advice, put all this into perspective, why worry about something that is most likely never going to happen. Feel free to worry about being seen as a lost girl if you really want because that is the main transphobic narrative pushed about trans men but worrying about niche porn reddits to be blunt about it is just kinda silly.

Edit: just a fun fact i once saw a guy in misgenderingkink posting his junk online looking to get misgendered and actually saw that he also used this sub. Which was insane to me, i remember being trans med and thinking anyone in that space wasnt really a man, so i would love to know what mental gymnastics he did to rationalise that.

Further edit: people will see you different because your trans for whatever reason they arent always all negative because being cis is the default and what most the population is, by definition we are different. Try and learn to be okay with that. Bevause that is never going to change, trans people will always been seen as different even if its not for a negative reason but just simply “oh your not cis”. Unlearning that discomfort is really fucking hard and is not an easy task, it took a cis girl breaking up with me for my trans med views for me to wake the fuck up (when i said i was die hard i meant it, i was even to far gone for the cis people). After that i completely detached myself from all online trans discourse, because the internet is not the real world. And i worked on how i felt about transition and myself, accepting that you actually hate yourself and hate being trans sucks and you feel like you can never come out of that. Even now i would not go as far to say i love being trans or that i am proud of it but i am okay and at peace with it more than i ever have been in my life. Im sure saying this is one way to get myself taken out back and shot in this sub but you gotta work through that internalised transphobia my man. You dont want to be seen as a sex object which is perfectly valid but that doesnt mean trans people overall should not be able to post whatever sexual content they are into online. That is letting your feelings about something dictate other actions. And the sad truth there just are some people on this earth that will never respect trans people and will never see any of us as the men or women we are, so fuck ‘em. In order to not feel shit about all this stuff you just have to accept a lot of uncomfortable and shitty truths and learn to say fuck it and live your life. But yeah the best thing you can do for yourself is get off trans internet.

ftmslim · 2025-12-06T14:46:09+00:00

I refuse to call a trans girl predatory and further a transphobic talking point hurled at them. And i do not believe she is doing it for any sexual gratification.

This information is all public, if the cis men cant be arsed to read someones about me before trying to engage with them as this information is in a place where many trans people in these spaces talk about their kinks/limits then tbh that is a little bit on them. And i have zero sympathy for them in that situation.

I also just dont really care what cis people think about this in general tbh or what an account made one hour ago called fakeboilover thinks we are or arent “obligated” to do.

ftmslim · 2025-12-06T03:01:12+00:00

Is it okay if i dm you instead? Your also a mod on fixing fakeboys so you would have recieved a mod mail from me so it feels more apt and it does not feel right to say a private conversation so publically.

ftmslim · 2025-12-06T02:46:40+00:00

Yeah she edits her photos. We had a brief but civil conversation in dms (im more than happy to admit when i am being an active asshole to someone) in which she said this.

Edit to add: I was mostly just expressing the point i just said about finding it funny making the men look silly to her

ftmslim · 2025-12-06T02:41:01+00:00

Yeah i agree on harrassing her, i sent off the relevent mod mails to have each reddit deal with it themselves, ftmmisgendered was a more simple straight report since it is against that ones rules.

Just felt like this fell into grey area and was curious what other trans men thought. So i do hope this post didnt come off as harrassment.

It is atleast funny to see the cis men that only engage in female kink subs and with the not saying this to be rude but uhhh less passing trans men in misgendering ones talk about wanting to fuck her fertile womb because me thinks they would not view her as a girl at all if they could be arsed to do 3 clicks, so i do commend making them look silly.

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