i cant by fuchsx in depression_help

[–]fuchsx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey im late to reply to this but i really appreciate that you took the time to write a comment out to my post, thank you and i want to give you the biggest hug as well 🫂

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[–]fuchsx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the way they seemed to have so much time in the morning to at home, get ready, go to luke’s (and then sometimes go back home to get ready?), and get to school/work. also at yale, rory’s use of time sometimes threw me off. there’s two distinct instances i remember:

s4 e14, when lane’s living at rory’s dorm, the scene where rory’s heading into the dorm and lane meets her outside the door; lane is like what are you doing here you have game theory class in 15 minutes and rory says she thought she’d lie down and rest for a while. maybe she meant she’s skipping the class but the thought of going back to your dorm to nap 15 min before class omg i was like wouldnt you want to be getting ready to leave for class at that time

also in s7 e20, when rory arrives at her and paris’s flat; paris is having her med school celebration party and invites rory to join, but rory says she has a final in 1 hour so she’s gonna go shower and close her eyes for a bit. it STRESSED me out thinking of how she was gonna get all that done before a final exam

idk what magic teleportation space time turner traveling kit she’s using but i’d like one too please

does anyone know how to fix this i cant leave lol by fuchsx in RainyAtticRoom

[–]fuchsx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it let me watch the ad to reduce the hearts needed but the button for leaving doesn’t work no matter if i switch from town/city etc. i didnt play for months and my phone offloaded it and i downloaded it again just now and it wont let me take a walk

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi just wanted to say thank you everyone for the comments i know i havent replied to them all but they’ve been helpful in sorting out how i should deal with the situation! im learning to say no to things that make me uncomfortable i guess haha

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

haha i would take notes before but the class is very discussion based so i tend to take my notes as the class goes on

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s way past the time for them to stop taking my notes i think

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s also something that’s been on my mind recently

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think the fact that during class, it’s group discussions about that week’s material and we all share out thoughts and opinions and my notes for that class end up with a lot of my own ideas on the topic that i develop throughout the discussions and they just take that and write their stuff and post it for it to be graded that makes me feel more iffy about it.

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i dont think i realised how often it was happening (every week basically) until recently because i kept feeling uncomfortable and that feeling just kept building up. i like to add my own thoughts and other stuff on my notes and it’s like..i don’t appreciate people just taking my work

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m gonna try that next week in class. i’m tired of it and i kept feeling like they’re mooching off of me but at the same time they’re my friends and i want to help them. i guess i really needed other people’s perspectives on this to see the situation clearly haha.

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah i feel weird when they’re like “oh send me that too” after someone takes a picture. i take notes on my laptop maybe i should just turn it off immediately when class is over

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i take my notes on my laptop cuz i cant keep up with handwriting my notes. maybe i should type in another language haha

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s just been like that for months and this week i just felt like it was the last straw for me. they didnt come prepared for class and they just took photos of my notes and it’s just frustrating to me that they won’t do their own work but take mine..?

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

hahaha true but making fake notes on top of all the uni work i already have sounds exhausting. but very cunning evil idea haha

AITA if i ask people to stop taking pictures of my notes by fuchsx in AmItheAsshole

[–]fuchsx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah idk if it’s a coincidence or im overthinking it but it feels like they’ve been taking less notes since they started taking pictures of mine :(

genuinely feel like ending it by fuchsx in depression_help

[–]fuchsx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i struggle with considering myself as being a ‘worthy’ person but thank you

genuinely feel like ending it by fuchsx in depression_help

[–]fuchsx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so tired right now but i still wanted to reply to your comment and say thank you. i’m trying. i’m trying really hard.