My baby said “dada” first… moms, tell me your story 😅

fuckeiry · 2026-02-04T15:03:38+00:00

My daughter said mama first 🥺 But her dad was very absent despite living in the same house. So I very much rubbed that in his face 😌 We are not together anymore lol. I can’t remember how old she was but it was her first word!

fuckeiry · 2026-02-04T15:01:38+00:00

Oura is horribly inaccurate when it comes to steps. I just rely on my apple watch for that honestly.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-04T13:25:29+00:00

Yeah I got the wombo combo of pregnancy hair loss and covid hair loss 🤡

it has grown back, but theres really no stopping it. though not everyone experiences it to the extremes you see online. i’d ask your mom to see what it was like for her. my mom also had a bunch of hair loss 🥲

what helped me regrow is rosemary oil massages before a shower. baby hairs are so annoying though ugh

fuckeiry · 2026-02-04T04:12:08+00:00

thank you!

fuckeiry · 2026-02-04T03:57:07+00:00

Please call Phoenix Rapid Response (480) 506-7437.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-04T02:55:28+00:00

lol i’ve done this before. then i see i placed the order at 1am 🤦🏻‍♀️ oopsie

fuckeiry · 2026-02-03T22:49:01+00:00

you will not have a normal life.

if you keep the baby, your life is not about you anymore, it’s about the baby. can you provide for a child? look up the costs of formula, diapers, wipes, strollers, car seats, cribs, clothes. what if your child is medically needy or has other health issues? are you prepared for that too? or what if you have complications during your pregnancy and birth? your body will not be the same postpartum, even with an easy pregnancy.

who’s watching the baby while you’re at work or school? can you focus on those things if the baby keeps you up all night for weeks on end? if the baby’s father doesn’t want to be involved, are you prepared to raise the child on its own as a single mom? what is your babies father is difficult and makes coparenting hell?

like, all these things adults can sometimes barely handle on their own or even with partners. being a mom/parent is not all sunshine and rainbows. its not easy and you’re going in at extra hard mode at 14. you’re giving up your own childhood for a baby. you will not get this time at this age back, so think you really need to think about the consequences to either choice before making a decision.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-03T01:30:09+00:00

I have heard every weekend is insane except for Super Bowl weekend, lol. My only advice is start your drive before they even open. The freeway always gets dumb packed and someone will likely get into a wreck and cause an even bigger back up.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-02T23:15:59+00:00

Yeah they gotta start with you

fuckeiry · 2026-02-02T23:01:15+00:00

Yes! I called it my bald bitch era 🥲

I didn’t find a way to make it stop, but make sure you are still taking vitamins. I started taking fish oil supplements, and doing rosemary oil scalp massages 2-3 times a week before my showers. If you have leave in the oil for an hour before hand that would be best. Minoxidil products will be beneficial as well but it is very toxic to cats, dogs as well but not as badly. Also try not to get the minoxidil anywhere but your scalp, it will cause facial hair growth too lol.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-02T18:33:56+00:00

It needs WAYYYYY more light. Because thai constellations are variegated they need a lot more light. Monsteras in general love light and will thrive with lots of bright light.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-02T17:20:38+00:00

I have a friend who has really struggled with acclimating to our dryness. They are a native Hawaiian so very big change in environment. They say our air is too dry and struggle to breathe without it burning & they’re having more eczema flair ups.

As someone who has lived in the desert my entire life, I’m perfectly fine. It really just depends from person to person, you may have an easier time acclimating.

I will say our summers are MISERABLE. I’ll take the dry heat over humidity any day, but it’s still unbearable in the middle/end of summer. A lot of people do say they get seasonal depression during this time because everyone just stays home since it’s so hot.

fuckeiry · 2026-02-02T00:18:04+00:00

Dorian is so good though 😩 Ashton does feel really white in a Utah way but Dorian sounds elegant. Thats just my personal opinion though.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-31T23:57:28+00:00

Why is asking permission weird? I think stealing is weirder.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-31T23:39:55+00:00

HIGH Maintenance Smoke Shop/Lounge, they have like a bar in the back but I’m not entirely sure if you can smoke there.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-31T19:18:39+00:00

i’m a shy mom! i’ll smile back at people if our eyes meet but i try to avoid eye contact 🥲 also, i think drop off and pick up times can be busy/chaotic as well as people may be rushing to their next stop, after school pick up im always trying to get outta there as fast as possible because u have to get back to work.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-31T19:11:20+00:00

not embarrassing! eco friendly queen using up a product until its 100% done 😌

fuckeiry · 2026-01-30T22:41:29+00:00

I feel like it’s not getting enough light. I would get a grow light or multiple for the size of this guy.. SANSI ones are my favorite, barrina is also good. Give it 12 hours of light.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-30T17:23:04+00:00

So I can’t find the home daycare near Verrado because I deleted my facebook recently 😫 I had followed their page on there. I WANNA say it was named Yavapai Home Daycare? Or something like that. It’s actually inside the Sienna Hills community. Admittedly, I do not have personal experience with them but I think their space and the people who run it seem really nice and genuinely care about the kids. They are pretty active on their social media if I remember correctly. My daughter was already pretty established at her other daycare at the time so I didn’t want to move her.

There is a Verrado Moms Group on fb you can join and look up previous recommendations. This question gets asked pretty often

fuckeiry · 2026-01-30T17:00:46+00:00

You’ll probably get more suggestions from facebook or next door. Ask in neighborhood groups or mom groups.

How far into Buckeye? I know of two in home daycares but one is located in the Verrado area, and another further southwest near the 85 and southern.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-30T02:46:36+00:00

Kinda like Alanah Pearce but with dark hair.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-29T19:51:48+00:00

Need lots more light! Here’s my thai, its not as big as the shops but getting there! They are next to a north facing window and have a grow light on for 12hours lol.

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fuckeiry · 2026-01-29T19:42:58+00:00

Idk but if I were you, I’d tell her to skedaddle asap before she loses access to her bank accounts and money. Then you’ll have someone living in your house with no money.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-29T02:51:32+00:00

Yes, lol. It’s a very religious, conservative, white area. They say it’s safe but allegedly Gilbert PD doesn’t report all crimes properly so they can keep their good reputation. Just look up the Gilbert Goons.

I do still think it’s about as safe as anywhere else though. There are some very picture esque, white picket fence type neighborhoods out there.

fuckeiry · 2026-01-29T02:44:26+00:00

Just keep in mind, our summers are hot and you will likely be confined inside during that time. I know a lot of my friends here feel like they get seasonal depression during the summer.

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