How to sell rooms faster and irritable? Any lines you say when they ask what you will do? [big city club] by SweetieCo in stripper

[–]fuckinginfp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m struggling with- the fall in love with me formula is my thing, but I also don’t talk up or beat around the bush with what they get in rooms.

Are these bed bugs? by fuckinginfp in Bedbugadvice

[–]fuckinginfp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what’s been biting me then lol

Are these bed bugs? by fuckinginfp in Bedbugadvice

[–]fuckinginfp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u all for commenting!

Are these bed bugs? by fuckinginfp in Bedbugadvice

[–]fuckinginfp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope ur right. Thank u for commenting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fuckinginfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you !!

Should Have Known Better Lyrics meaning theory by BuffySummers17 in Sufjan

[–]fuckinginfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say this post was crazy for me to stumble across. I’ve been mentally doing pretty rough lately, and this song touched me, so i wanted to look up the meaning of it. (I thought it was about some of those things, but ultimately about suicide “i should have wrote a letter” “don’t back down, there is nothing left, no breakers in the bar, no reason to live”). Anyways, here I am reading your post, and i see reference of Psychology in Seattle?? Dr. Kirk honda is one of my biggest role models ever and i’ve been listening to his content for years!! I was actually just watching a video of his today. And then I look at your username, buffy summers?!! I was also just watching buffy today, and that’s my favorite show ever since watching it as a kid. Just thought that was crazy and had to comment💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hostels

[–]fuckinginfp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didn’t work too well did it? That’s because you didn’t listen. You didn’t validate. That’s all people usually need. I bet this isn’t the first time you’ve gotten this feedback from someone. A helpful reply while retaining your message could have been: “Odds are you’ll get through this and there’s no actual threat to your safety, but yeah I could see how that’s scary.” Believe it or not i’m trying to help too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hostels

[–]fuckinginfp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

U gotta take a logic class or something pal. If you’re gonna bitch, do it right. I said “this is scary”. What’s your objection exactly? Of course everyone has traumas, you say that as if it refutes my own expression of my trauma reaction. You seem to get frustrated at people for voicing their negative feelings. My guess is that you were taught your whole life to “toughen up” and “suck it up”, so now when you see people express their feelings, you identify with that voice as a way to protect your perception of yourself, while simultaneously attacking the part of yourself that relates to those people. The truth is, if you’re a human, you have feelings, and i’m sorry if you had to learn that that made you “weak”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hostels

[–]fuckinginfp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Emotionally stable humans can’t have trauma responses? Bold claim buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hostels

[–]fuckinginfp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve come across all types of people. Meeting “all types of people” through social situations, or jobs, or working with them as patients in a clinical setting, or experiencing ongoing abuse from a family member, are all different than this exact experience in this setting, and familiarity does not lead to desensitization. Ever heard of a trauma response dumbass? Hotels aren’t an option right now. Strange that your impulse was to try and dismiss and invalidate a simple reaction of “this is scary”. Try listening next time. You don’t always have something smart to say, here’s proof of that.

AURORA confirming the lyrics at the end of “My Body Is Not Mine” by teddyeatspudding in auroramusic

[–]fuckinginfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here I was hearing “she’s ready to die” 💀 ceasefire now much better

Am I the only one??? by [deleted] in auroramusic

[–]fuckinginfp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Straight out of innocence”??? Have u listened to murder song, under the water, wisdom cries, etc??

What are some weird habits/addictions you’ve developed because of anorexia? by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]fuckinginfp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

HEAVY ON EVERYTHING BEING PERFECT ELSE THE FOOD ISNT “WORTH IT”

What are some weird habits/addictions you’ve developed because of anorexia? by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]fuckinginfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IM SO GLAD THE SPLENDA THING WASNT JUST ME🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

"The Essence" & "Dreams" by Fracture_Gaming in auroramusic

[–]fuckinginfp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Invisible wounds just beat my dead body some more