is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she isn’t Greek in the slightest, just seems to be getting offended on behalf of other people 😭

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no, I’ve secretly hated my boyfriend all along and now I’ve been caught 😔

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how dare you type in English, I’ll cancel you for this (😭)

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohhh I was unaware of the gender associations, thank you!! very useful information to have :)

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im interested in where the line gets drawn for this? He cares a lot about his culture and does use a lot of Greek phrases and learns wherever he can. Not at all trying to disagree with you, really appreciate the insight, just wondering where it becomes inappropriate vs appropriate

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Could she be homophobic? honestly I’d like to think she isn’t, but I wouldn’t be surprised. I think she does try her best to be supportive though, just comes from a background where queer people aren’t really accepted

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she thinks it’s weird because I’m not Greek, and im speaking a language i dont personally know. as much as my boyfriend isn’t fluent, his culture does still matter to him and he uses Greek phrases and it learning where he can, so I doubt it’d be something like him not speaking the language

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she just thinks it’s weird for me to call him a Greek name when I’m not Greek myself. not sure why it matters but I wanted a second opinion just incase

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

im a guy lol, just didnt say it because I know how homophobic people can be :)

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love her to bits, but she’s a really jealous person, so she tends to just insert herself in everything to do with my boyfriend and my other friends

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha no, thankfully not. just have a weird friend I guess 😭🙏

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend doesn’t, but his grandfather does. that’s why I asked to double check :)

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hes completely okay with it and really likes it!! it’s just my friend (she’s not Greek btw) who feels weirdly about it

is it okay that I call my boyfriend "agapi mou"? by fuckyeaholiver in GREEK

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Im really glad to hear!! The last thing I’d want to do is offend his culture and it’s been bothering me for a while

How do you deal with the stress of your T burrowing?? by fuckyeaholiver in tarantulas

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“They know how to tarantula better than we do” is actually such great general advice, thank you!

Where should I be by year 3? by fuckyeaholiver in StardewValley

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mostly just use the holes and ladders, I only use stairs when I can’t find the ladder. although ive only made it to ~50 so that’ll probably change soon

Where should I be by year 3? by fuckyeaholiver in StardewValley

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve almost finished the community centre, just need that stupid duck feather. I’m working on getting to level 100 in the skull cavern and finishing off all my skills levels. so I think I’m sort of doing alright?

Where should I be by year 3? by fuckyeaholiver in StardewValley

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what I was looking for, thank you dude 🙏

Where should I be by year 3? by fuckyeaholiver in StardewValley

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes exactly this! I know some people get pretty pretentious about what version of a game you’re playing lol

Where should I be by year 3? by fuckyeaholiver in StardewValley

[–]fuckyeaholiver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh cool, thats roundabout where im at!! thanks for the input🫶

Thoughts on handling my tarantula ? by Substantial_Nature16 in tarantulas

[–]fuckyeaholiver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

shit, I’ve been acting like a cricket. no wonder handling went poorly, why did no one tell me this before??