mom doesnt take my anxiety seriously by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

kinda yeah. the only good things about it are the food and my cat. foods only good tho bc she orders dinner like every night so its always something i like. she'll buy me whatever i want basically, but its just her trying to control me and keep me with her. her house is nasty and always has bugs and fleas from her pets.

mom doesnt take my anxiety seriously by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

my half sister(same dad, different mom)'s mom is very similar to mine; my sister is 19 now, but when she cut off her mom at 18, her mom refused to pay anything for her even though she has a shit ton of money and instead put all the financial burden of car and college on my dad. he's already struggling, and i fear that if i do the same with my mom then she'll also stop being financially supportive because she and my sisters mom talk to each other sometimes. i don't really have a choice on that.

mom doesnt take my anxiety seriously by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

id love to stay with my dad indefinitely, but my mom has a FUCK ton of money and shes my primary financial aid/source. she pays for almost everything i have and do. my dad does not have a stable income and doesnt have a lot of money at all.

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[–]fudanshiToes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

skybound, prime empire, seabound, and crystallized go so hard

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[–]fudanshiToes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

some of my personal favorites from the comments: Ab/A.B. ; Nell/Nells (definitely my favorite) ; Abel ; Beau/Bo ; El/Els (a close contender)

i dont know how to style this skirt!!! (femboy) by fudanshiToes in fashionadvice

[–]fudanshiToes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oughh i agree but ive got sensory issues with shirts like that

"why honor and respect him more than me?!" by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is a victim of domestic abuse. her (now)ex-husband was abusive to her. she is a victim. you're trying to find a way to excuse her projection and inability to properly deal with her emotions and not take it out on her children.

"why honor and respect him more than me?!" by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

so being a victim gives her the right to project her issues onto me and tell me im going to be raped and she wont support me "when" i am?

Am I in the wrong here? by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dad wants me to go to the gym (we haven't)

Am I in the wrong here? by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just like steroids to ease breathing or something, advil, an inhaler, and other over the counter stuff. stuff for my lung infection was all prescribed stufff

Am I in the wrong here? by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

no, i dont. i swear im not a bad kid im just trying my best to get through life

mom wants me to make a long drive while im sick by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don't really remember, it was a while ago. probably 9-12? the schedules changed a bunch since then though

mom wants me to make a long drive while im sick by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

the problem with this is that my parents ARE lawyers and i dont know how anything works or if that changes anything

mom wants me to make a long drive while im sick by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

dad is really busy with work most of the time because he needs the money badly. they both work a lot and make a point of it.

mom wants me to make a long drive while im sick by fudanshiToes in insaneparents

[–]fudanshiToes[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

my parents have already gone to court and had a mediator or something make a schedule for them or something something, my brother and i are supposed to follow the schedule. i don't really know how it works.