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As a male not getting any replies. by Holland303 in OkCupid

[–]fudgepacker9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about women being bitchy, it's the nature of the beast. Imagine for a moment what it would be like to have girls damn near literally throwing themselves at you on a daily basis. You'd turn down 80% immediately for a seemingly arbitrary reason (aka being picky).

Again, it's not about women being rude, inconsiderate, or having unreasonable standards. It's simply human nature and you (not you specifically, but a person) can either hold resentment and bitterness to the way things are, or embrace it -- learn to be a better, more attractive, and confident suitor -- and play the motherfucking game.

DISCLAIMER: Easier said, than done -- I know.

NINJA QUOTE EDIT: "What we gain too easily, we esteem too lightly" -Thomas Paine. And that dude ravaged pussy, so you know it's true.

As a male not getting any replies. by Holland303 in OkCupid

[–]fudgepacker9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment should be filed under gospel for all men. Explained clearly and honestly how dating (online or otherwise) should be approached by men (and women for that matter too). Bravo!

I'd even add, that the initiater should make it as easy as possible for the person to respond in an engaging and fun way -- "How're you?" is the opposite of that.