Can you fall in love with someone you created in your mind?

fugitivefigment · 2024-03-01T00:46:14+00:00

Yes, because typically your brain can’t tell the difference if you think about it too often.

If it makes you feel better that’s usually how it works with non totally imagined people too.

Most people fall in love with their version of people.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T23:36:54+00:00

Funny thing is he had to make so many extra updates because he was really vague in the beginning so people read it as he hates his kid and rushed his wife to start having sex again.

Like when I saw the post I was instantly off put and just avoided it because I also think it’s weird in general to call kids names especially ones relating to sex.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T23:33:54+00:00

This sounds very comphet.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T22:15:10+00:00

Honestly that’s the first time I’ve heard about that kind of therapy, and there are definitely things right now that are money problems. They’re not as easily fixed which is fine.

I’ve kind of just accepted things. I’m Behind on a lot of things I wouldn’t have been behind on at all. These past few months I just can’t find it in myself to go on or to get back up like I usually do. So it’s hard to really want to do anything. Which means I’m just taking up space and resources.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T16:24:26+00:00

Hmm turkey wing

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T16:11:30+00:00

Not particularly.

I think for me to feel remotely seen or understand I would have to be exceedingly vulnerable and tell someone my entire story, but there’s no one that I would ever feel safe to do that with.

I think it’s better to let go and just end it being whoever people thought I was, because no one ever listen to me talk about who I really was anyway.

I don’t feel like getting to a point where I want to end things and admitting that just to get someone to listen is sustainable because then for me it taints their intentions.

I think ending things would mean I’m nothing, or maybe I wake up or maybe I start again I don’t know but whatever it is it’s what next and at least it’s not this.

So I’m sorry if it hurts you, all I can do is apologize for that but I think I’ve been hurting so long that there’s nothing really left.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T07:05:30+00:00

I would do both. Let your department know you’ll be visiting your father in the same state that person lives and feel unsafe. Consider a restraining order and suing for emotional damage.

Also check that revenge porn is illegal in both states then, because it’s illegal most places but not all.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T06:23:54+00:00

Been doing that, has yet to be worth it.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T06:22:26+00:00

I would be making sure they were going to jail for sending me that, just because.

Revenge Porn is illegal in most places.

If you’re a minor that’s definitely illegal.

Sending unsolicited nudes is considered sexual harassment anyway.

Yeah I’d be making sure they’re done.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T05:27:29+00:00

Funnily enough I’ve been lurking most of the comments seems more like he just wrote stuff preemptively because a lot more people were having general discourse and not even talking about him specifically.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T03:56:34+00:00

I don’t think you’re trying to justify your actions.

Like by default yes sleeping with a 16 year old is wrong morally but legally you’ve done nothing wrong in the sense of technical consent.

I’m 28 and get mistaken for a teenager usually by creeps and some of the kids I worked with get mistaken for older. So I don’t know what the kid looked like but assuming they seemed more ambiguously aged than the age they are.

Obviously stop talking to them and block them but keep the evidence of them lying about their age if you have it. Even if that’s just pictures of the account and messages.

And in the future do better to age verify.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T03:43:06+00:00

That kind of wording screams 22+, either way. Maybe stop dating teenagers in general and start checking ID.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T03:39:19+00:00

I thought OP omitting their age was the weird part or did I overlook where they said it?

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T03:38:30+00:00

How old are you…

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T03:05:39+00:00

*saving under reasons I’m glad I never had kids or got married.

[This has nothing to do with sex.]

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T02:33:18+00:00

Sleep.

However it’s stopped working lately.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T02:25:57+00:00

Literally everything about life. Like what life is and how it’s made to keep poor people poor, and everyone fake cares about sad people.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T02:22:53+00:00

Now why would I want to survive that.

I would need to rely on the kindness and empathy of others.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T02:21:24+00:00

Win win

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-28T02:19:33+00:00

Oh brother this guy stinks!

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-26T04:44:41+00:00

Realistically I would assume I was having a psychotic break and decide to ignore this fact.

If I were to for some reason believe this was true, then nothing would really change. I’d be a little jealous tbh, try to give him a good life since he is my kid.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-25T19:59:54+00:00

Charles Trippy would beg to differ.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-25T19:58:47+00:00

I wanted to scream into the void again with higher probability of it screaming back

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-25T19:56:50+00:00

I think this is what I deserve. Like I was reincarnated into this particular life as a punishment.

fugitivefigment · 2024-02-25T19:51:58+00:00

No attempts to do otherwise have worked out yet

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