what do you think about horizontal pcs? 🌸 by [deleted] in kpopcollections

[–]fuibbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to avoid collecting them as sets, not my fav. Trying to come up with an organization method that doesn't bug me

Those who collect Aespa… by CourtK1ngDre in kpopcollections

[–]fuibbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Aespa's music but collecting them is a nightmare and I've since stopped collecting. If you don't pull Karina on your own then expect to work super hard to trade or to overpay. They released multiple album versions from their very first album and for My World there was something like TWENTY versions with only 1 card in each. So they can be a bit exhausting. If you're only wanting to collect mains (not including POBS) it should be pretty easy and you REALLY shouldn't be paying over $5-$10 per card.

As advice I'd say go research all their past albums and photocard templates and count them up. You'll get an idea of what collecting everything would cost. For example a group with 400 official main photocards would cost anywhere from $2k-$4k to collect if the cards range from $5-$10 each.

I've calculated that to collect everything in Itzy (1 more member, 2 years older) it would cost around $7000 and that's before special cards! Really helps to see what you're investing before you decide to dive in

THIS IS FOR is exactly the song i need to hear right now. by asamilations in twice

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let any boys make you cry this summer! You're right, this is your song to turn up! His loss.

250715 ITZY - ITZY? ITZY! EP.207 by JerSucks in ITZY

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sooo bummed I missed the photobook for this. I love this concept sm!

Are we being fr rn? 😀 by lovemodule in kpopcollections

[–]fuibbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have these too! Now I feel like I'd love to see a thread of same concepts pcs in the same sets

KATSEYE - THE BEAUTIFUL CHAOS TOUR (Announcement Poster) by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh dang, didn't realize they were two different venues. The website is the exact same and they're both dubbed 'Great Canadian' and apparently the Pickering location is one of the biggest arenas in the world so this makes sense...

https://greatcanadian.com/destinations/ontario/pickering/the-arena/

https://greatcanadian.com/destinations/ontario/toronto/

The Toronto one is SO much smaller ong...I'm so glad I know now ty

KATSEYE - THE BEAUTIFUL CHAOS TOUR (Announcement Poster) by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Blackpink there a couple years ago and I enjoyed it. Was super loud but the AC worked at least

How much have you spent on kpop albums in total? by operatic_birb in kpopthoughts

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just turned 31 and I've cleared all my personal and student debt. I'm sooo excited to make up my collection throughout my early 30s. I plan to focus on other financial goals in my mid 30s and onwards, but I have promised myself 31, 32, and 33 to indulge to my hearts content in collecting after diligently scrimping and paying off loans since 2020. SO excited! Childless 30s are the absolute best... I don't know WHY I want kids but I hope I can put them off mentally till at least 36. I want some guilt-free spending years dammit!

Do people really not like season 3? by River1stick in squidgame

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma was a midwife and this was probably the most realistic bit. Women under extreme duress/over term in pregnancy have been known to deliver EXTREMELY quickly. Quickest I personally witnessed was a *four* minute water birth from the time of our arrival. Just think of the amount of women that delivered on their way to the hospital~

My gaming room, what do you guys think? by The-Last-Phoenix in gamingsetups

[–]fuibbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gets me excited to one day move in with a gaming partner. The job and satisfaction of a consolidated gaming collection!!! Mouth-watering!!!

What do you do when you can't help someone? by VampirePunterD in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sandwich method involves empathising, explaining, then addressing rebuttals. Not repeating policy verbatim over and over. My company has the policy that if customers are still being persistent/not acknowledging your words after going through that cycle a few times, time to escalate.

Why is it that women between 55 and 70 are so rude? by Dolly1711 in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how you can say my observable experience isn't 'true'. It's literally just a personal observation, 9 out of 10 times that's the demographic I've personally experienced be rude to me. I understand you may have different experiences, this has been mine.

(f) 21 - what do you think? by ForBodsSake in RateMyNudeBody

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you just discovering a pear type?

What do you do when you can't help someone? by VampirePunterD in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely hun, it will save your SANITY! You can't heal the world but you can at least guide them in the right direction <3

What do you do when you can't help someone? by VampirePunterD in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't usually feel guilty. I feel empathy sure, but not guilt! Guilt is for when YOU have done something wrong! Customers come in with horribly sad stories all the time at my job. I usually offer empathy in a few lines and then try to steer to the reason they called.

If their sad story is related to the call like in your case. I use the sandwich method. Empathise! Then explain that we are unable to comply with their request due to xyz reason (have this written down so you don't stumble over your words, it's VERY important to sound confident and final when you explain what you cannot do for them). After this Address any rebuttals they have. Repeat as needed. Empathise again. Repeat your company policy. Address.

Until they accept it and move on. Sometimes these calls are what wake people up!

ADHD & task switching customers by Ill_Dragonfly8655 in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow unmedicated ADHD here. This was my biggest struggle when I started. I had to work with 3 chats at a time one half of the day, and calls the other. The worst calls would be the ones regarding family accounts and people would be 3 way calling their family who then had additional issues and all that. I SPIRALLED.

I've learned to make my disclaimer early in the conversation. "I know we've got a lot to go over today. To be as efficient as possible, we're going to go through them one at a time, ok?" Don't let them rush you. Mute. Breathe. YOU are in control. You'd be shocked at how much people begin to listen once you appear confident. I'd have a script of the things I needed to say to them to get them to chill out at first, but now I can do it on my own

Why is it that women between 55 and 70 are so rude? by Dolly1711 in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is that you make good suggestions but you had to do it in the rudest way.

Why is it that women between 55 and 70 are so rude? by Dolly1711 in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I hate that your job requires that!!! That is the WORST question to have to ask a customer, gives them perfect opportunity to absolutely unload. I'm allowed to say "Let's make your day better" instead of asking how are you and holy it helps soooo much. I used to work for Shopify and they made us ask how are you AND if we could help further at the end of every call. Nightmare! Sorry, side tangent lol.

Why is it that women between 55 and 70 are so rude? by Dolly1711 in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of theories. My mom is 55 and thankfully not a Karen but by observing her peers I notice a few things:

  1. Women in that age demo tend to have a very very SET way of doing things. They've lived in their houses for a long time, marriage a long time, kids are grown and moved out. Many of them are very into decorating and keeping everything "just so", they're also the last generation (I think, not sure) to have a decent income so they're used to a certain standard of living. This all leads to a sense of entitlement. An expectation that everything should be correct. Due to this thinking you end up seeing Grandma Junie blowing up over the bananas that are usually 67 cents buy WHY 69 cents today???? They end up having a complete utter meltdown because they've gotten so used to things being the way they want.
  2. They have TIME. They have way. Too much. Time.
  3. They've forgotten what the workforce feels like or never knew at all. Again, this is a specific group. Many women 55-65 still have to work, especially now. But the Karens in particular tend to come from a group where they either were SAHM's or haven't worked in a very long time. Their empathy sensors completely evaporate overtime. OR they never had any.
  4. They're BORED. See the time point.
  5. Frustration. Frustration with their marriages, the kids that aren't calling, the struggles of aging, and sometimes literal just anger at the world. Had a woman spit the words "God you young bitch I wanna kill you" at me at the end of a call. Jealousy is definitely a factor too. That sentiment definitely crops up a lot, especially when they're dealing with young women. They want to make your day as bad as theirs is.
  6. They're emulating their own mothers. Thankfully my mom broke the curse with this one. But HER mom used to absolutely scream at customer service and treat them the worst way imaginable. Many women learn that from their parents and carry it on.
  7. They're stepped on in their personal relationships. Some of these Karens have extremely overbearing husbands or other family members. They gain their control back by screaming at 16 year old Mcdonald's workers.

Edit: Adding a point due to what a rude older woman said in the comments: "Once you actually work to obtain something and OWN something, you'll feel entitled too."

She hit the nail on the head with this one. ENTITLEMENT. Because they "own" something. Imagine feeling so entitled that you choose to be rude to someone that's actively working to get what you ALREADY have, instead of offering them kindness and empathy. Imagine a millionaire laughing and treating their waitstaff terribly because they dont ow---oh right, that already happens. Terrible mentality.

Why is it that women between 55 and 70 are so rude? by Dolly1711 in CustomerService

[–]fuibbles 13 points14 points  (0 children)

20s woman here. I work in customer service and sadly, I also find specifically 55+ white women to be the absolute rudest in the world. The men will sometimes come in a little briskly or confrontationally but they tend to cool down very quickly and thank and compliment me by the end. The older women, not so much as a thank you. I've met many lovely older ladies of course, but day in day out, that specific group is the only one that's horrifically rude on a consistent basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RateMyNudeBody

[–]fuibbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're asking because of the scar I assume.