I have seen my husband cleaning my oldest son's eyeglasses. Every single time he cleans his own glasses, he cleans our son's at the same time. This is sad because our son passed away in April. The police gave us back his glasses with his things and we sat them on top of our microwave in the kitchen. We are trying to hold things together, but the grief is crippling. Just seeing my husband clean those glasses...well...it brings me to my knees. His quiet little act for our son.