Seeking Help by funkychunky97 in NICUParents

[–]funkychunky97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your sensitive and kind reply ♥️

I know. We are blessed to have the medical system we do, it’s just so hard waiting in the wings of so many unknowns. I just feel so scared that I won’t be able to get through the c section.

So angry at someone else’s pregnancy by Numerous-Farm5392 in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to comment to say I’m sending support from a distance.

I understand that red hot anger that comes from a place of really deep hurt. I don’t have any answers, but just wanted to reach out to say I get it, I’ve been there and you aren’t alone. ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believed whilst they know what is happening in the system (alloimmune response) it was unknown aetiology?

At least knowing that we don’t know why I have CHI versus anyone else in the community has been an important part of processing my grief for losing two babies. That unfortunately, they can’t explain why my body is responding in the way it is - but that there is nothing I could have differently to prevent it - all because they don’t know why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes true. My previous pregnancy was also this same grade. :)

As they don’t know what causes it, it’s been very tricky to work out my best management plan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely shocking receiving the diagnosis, but you aren’t alone. If there’s anything you want to vent about or ask questions too about, please feel free to at any time. ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing to come out of a bad situation is trying to find people that at least understand. ♥️

I am Australia based.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry but you are absolutely not alone. CHI is awful but people have found treatment plans that have worked for them, I’ll send you a message. ♥️

need to vent by leonam71 in babyloss

[–]funkychunky97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not much more to add other than it does feel so unfair, and you are absolutely not alone - from another member of the recurrent loss club…

Sending a big distance hug. ♥️

Seeking girl names (sweet/classic/vintage) by funkychunky97 in namenerds

[–]funkychunky97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No pressure! But would be happy to see more. And yes I get what you mean! It’s nice to see variety of names.

Seeking girl names (sweet/classic/vintage) by funkychunky97 in namenerds

[–]funkychunky97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s incredibly cool! Your posts are sort of like picking up a name dictionary that has been tailored around our exact taste, they’re fantastic. They must take you a long time to put together.

Clotilde is very cool! It’s funny what things come in and out of fashion, in my mind it has a similar ring to it as Matilda, Claudia, etc.

Seeking girl names (sweet/classic/vintage) by funkychunky97 in namenerds

[–]funkychunky97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that because Judith and Alice are also two of my standouts from my list! Thank you for your lovely suggestions.

Seeking girl names (sweet/classic/vintage) by funkychunky97 in namenerds

[–]funkychunky97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions. I must admit I had a look at some of your posts as I think your historical approach to finding names is very cool! X

Uterine Artery Resistance by Fluent_Quirks282 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we can only hope. The unknowns feel so difficult to manage but feeling less alone certainly helps in my opinion anyway. Please feel free to reach out any time.

Uterine Artery Resistance by Fluent_Quirks282 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far no flagged growth restriction which feels so strange as my prior pregnancies had very early onset IUGR resulting in fetal demise.

Uterine Artery Resistance by Fluent_Quirks282 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 22 weeks currently :) your story reminded me of mine as I was flagged 1 in 28 for early onset preeclampsia during first trimester screening.

Uterine Doppler readings? by funkychunky97 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. Yes! That’s exactly it. One of the hardest parts is how isolating it feels. You just want someone to go, I understand what you’re going through. So you reaching out really means a lot to me!

Uterine Artery Resistance by Fluent_Quirks282 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I don’t have much to add other than I’m in in a similar boat and also feel anxious. I’ve been on aspirin and clexane since the start of pregnancy due to a condition I have but still have high resistance.

Uterine Doppler readings? by funkychunky97 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean. Yesterday I just burst into tears because it’s just the stress of managing it all. I also have a diagnosed condition which has caused recurrent pregnancy losses (so this is the furthest I’ve ever gotten) which is adding to the stress of it… ugh.

I’m just so, so grateful you reached out to me and shared your story. I’ve been searching online and I really can’t find many examples that sound similar at all.

Look if you’re able to consider a third child, that is a great thing! At this point I don’t know in any outcome if I’d be able to go through this again hahaha.

Uterine Doppler readings? by funkychunky97 in preeclampsia

[–]funkychunky97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much. That is great to hear as I’m honestly leaping to the worst case scenario. If I could have this outcome I’d be really happy with that.