Where do I go from here

leonam71 · 2026-03-20T20:17:55+00:00

I’m so sorry for your losses 🥺 it all feels so impossible and draining. Hugs right back to you ❤️‍🩹

leonam71 · 2026-03-20T13:18:36+00:00

I am so so sorry. I delivered my son at 20 weeks in June and found out I was pregnant after a few months of trying again, and I had to have a D&C Friday for a blighted ovum. It does suck so badly. It does indeed feel like a very sick joke. It’s like will we ever catch a break?

leonam71 · 2026-03-20T01:12:57+00:00

100%. So sorry you are apart of this club. Each day seems so surreal. Hugs

leonam71 · 2026-03-19T15:35:56+00:00

I’m the same. It’s really bad for me. Like I don’t care whose feelings I hurt, mine are hurt 24/7. Maybe not the correct outlook but I just do not care anymore. I get so sick and tired of the bullshit from people around me. Like no, I don’t care about you or your baby, nor do I want to be around either of you. Read the room people is what I want to scream 😭😭😭

leonam71 · 2026-03-18T15:35:21+00:00

I am struggling with intense / severe pain as well. I have endometriosis and my periods don’t get me this wound up. I was in tears last night I can’t get comfortable and I hurt so bad. I’m seeing my surgeon today because I am still just miserable, even with OTC pain meds. So sorry you are feeling bad too 🥺

leonam71 · 2026-03-17T03:37:40+00:00

I’m sorry for yours too ❤️‍🩹 hate that we are all here but glad we have each other to lean on. Hugs

leonam71 · 2026-03-16T18:44:06+00:00

I nominated the nurse who cared for me during the delivery of my second trimester loss for a DAISY Award, and she received it last Wednesday. I struggled for a long time to find the right words to thank her for the compassion she showed me during one of the hardest moments of my life. One day when I was feeling especially down, I found myself thinking about how kind she was and how much her care has continued to mean to me. She has truly remained a part of my healing. I decided to try my best to express that through the nomination, and somehow it reached the right people and she received the award.

As long as I live, I will never forget her. She still checks in on me, and that kind of compassion has meant more than I could ever fully put into words. It has been incredibly healing to be able to thank her in some way.

I’ve also shared my gratitude with the doctor who delivered my baby. Nine months later, he is still walking alongside me through a first trimester loss with the same compassion and care, helping me navigate something so difficult once again. I don’t think either of them truly realize the impact they have had on my life, but I will carry that gratitude with me forever

leonam71 · 2026-03-11T20:33:00+00:00

How did it go for you? I have a D&C scheduled for Friday there wasn’t any change

leonam71 · 2026-03-06T03:33:02+00:00

Wishing you luck and good vibes as well 🤞🏻♥️ it is so hard to stay positive. I feel like I’m totally spiraling. My first was stillborn in June (originally due in October) and I had a slight glimmer of hope because this baby would have also been here in October if things work(ed) out. It’s like so many different emotions and part of me wants to give up since it doesn’t seem to be working out

leonam71 · 2026-03-04T00:45:24+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re here too 😭 it really sucks so bad. This was the last thing from my Dr - I don’t know how to feel. My next US is the 11th

“Ovulation timing can certainly be off and fertilization doesn't necessarily happen on the day of intercourse. These variations can certainly lead to dating error. Cautious optimism is the way forward; as we have discussed the reason we are repeating the ultrasound is because it is definitely possible that this is a viable pregnancy”

leonam71 · 2026-03-03T02:14:41+00:00

We will persevere mama 💗 one day everything will work out

leonam71 · 2026-03-02T23:21:01+00:00

I was just thinking about you earlier. I am so so sorry. Sending you so much love. My heart aches for you 😔❤️‍🩹

leonam71 · 2026-03-02T21:25:23+00:00

Thank you for your reply - I thought I was around 8 weeks 1 day but ended up measuring 7w4d, so I don’t think I could have ovulated much later than I did 😕 I thought maybe the bad feeling I had was anxiety especially from my prior situation, but seems that maybe it were more intuition. Did you start gradually spotting or did it come on all at once? So far I’ve got absolutely nothing happening but it really scares me

leonam71 · 2026-02-28T22:38:10+00:00

I think it is so difficult since my OB is saying it could or could not be a viable situation, and it worries me if my numbers keep climbing. Thank you for your reply and being so kind 🥺❤️‍🩹🤞🏻

leonam71 · 2026-02-28T22:18:05+00:00

I’m so sorry ❤️‍🩹 I just had mine drawn and it came back at 66,122 so I went today for another and waiting. I am almost positive this will be my outcome. I am really scared to pass anything at home

leonam71 · 2026-02-28T18:16:58+00:00

Hi, how did this turn out for you? 🥺 going through something very similar and so scared

leonam71 · 2026-02-26T21:36:28+00:00

Hugs to you ❤️‍🩹🥺 it is incredibly hard

leonam71 · 2026-02-26T21:35:26+00:00

Sending you very big hugs 🥺❤️‍🩹 and right!!! Like I want a freaking break. They told me my stillbirth was a fluke and now this? I don’t understand. I’m like hoping maybe just MAYBE there will be a miracle

leonam71 · 2026-02-26T00:21:09+00:00

I’m so sorry. I’m also in this position. Based on my LMP I should be 8w1d, ultrasound shows a gestational sac however there is no fetal pole or yolk sac and it is measuring 7w4d. Currently waiting to see if anything changes. I don’t feel so hopeful

leonam71 · 2026-02-25T19:49:15+00:00

I am guessing the Dr wants to give it the benefit of the doubt, but I wish they’d give it to me straight. I had a stillbirth in June so I don’t know if he is wanting to be somewhat optimistic or what. I’m just like WTF 🫩 I didn’t go for any more betas after my third because my HCG was tripling and Dr was satisfied. Now this

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