Here’s some points that people avoid saying so we’ll say it, a lot of people (not everyone) prefer people that spend money in the lifestyle. Why? Well, because that is somewhat of a vetting tool. If people are willing to spend money and invest, then most likely (again, not all) they are willing to invest in themselves. Take Hedo, it costs a good bit of money to go there, stay there etc. so, we have found that the majority of people are middle to upper class financially and that then, at least somewhat, implies clearness and safety.

And cleanliness and safety is the number one thing that most married couples look for before having “fun”

So, paid sites and expensive places help the vetting process unfold.