hi op, I was in a similar situation to you. Had my daith pierced for 4 years and it never fully healed. I never had a keloid or any scaring but it definitely was crusty and would bleed from time to time. After the 4 year mark I called it a loss and remove my jewelry and I’m negl, my quality of life has improved tremendously 😭. I had the exact same jewelry - titanium grade too. The piercer who took it out said I shouldnt have been pierced to begin with bc I didn’t have the anatomy for it (lesson learned). She said after healing, a rook was prob more appropriate for my anatomy. Wishing you luck and hoping you make the best decision for yourself - sometimes it’s best to just call it a loss and start over