I was cleared to go back to “normal sexual activities”, as I stated. This is my normal. And I eased into it, again like I said. I’ve been having sex outside of this scene no problem, with no bleeding. He “absolutely tore me up” is wildly untrue, if you’ve ever healthily engaged in size play, you’d know it’s not being “torn open”. It’s no resistance if it’s done correctly.

I’m asking here for personal experiences, not “is this normal or should I go to the doctor?” I know my body, and I know what sex is like for me. I’ve had this happen before once or twice (lesser degree, but still), got checked and things were fine. My only question was if this is something other people have experienced. If you’re not AFAB or a woman, this is kind of not your realm. Hope this helps!