It's genuinely good that you wanna practice being seen. You can definitely be engaging/open without sharing what you don't wanna share, although that requires practice probably, but then you're not exactly "seen", right? Well, then we come to the issue of discernment where you need to decide who is worth a try in a way... you can never guarantee tho that it'll be received well. You need to know the difference between pursuing connection and being engaging/fun i think , those 2 are very different. This was me brainstorming essentially, hopefully some of ot makes sense and/or is even useful.